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[ - ] Trying to wrap my head around this....my 80 year old MIL was visiting her sister in another city and stopped into her hotel bar alone for a drink. She says she met a handsome, successful 42-year-old guy who tried to pick her up (he paid for all her drinks and tried to come back to her hotel room). She gave me the guy’s name and occupation, and I found him online - he works in NYC, is married and is what many of you would consider “TT”. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:09 PM Flag
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Practice makes perfect [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:21 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:22 PM Flag
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Why was an 80 YO hanging out in a bar by herself? She was an easy target. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:23 PM Flag
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Op: she said it was the middle of the day, and she popped in to the bar to watch the World Cup. She was alone because she had just come from visiting her sister, who is ill and being treated at a nearby hospital. She wasn’t out on the prowl! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:40 PM Flag
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I’m not surprised. Predatory men don’t discriminate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:27 PM Flag
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NP. How is this surprising? Huge number of men try to up their notch count. They really don't care about anything but quantity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:31 PM Flag
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This. I am about 85 pounds overweight and travel all the time for business (in VC) and I usually stay at five star places. Men try to pick me up in hotel bars all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:32 PM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:32 PM Flag
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A hotel is the most convenient place for men, Almost all men prefer hotel sex. They chat for a few minutes in the bar, go up to her room for quick sex, back to their own hotel room to shower off and sometimes then back to the hotel bar look for more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:33 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:33 PM Flag
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Notch count. All of UB knows this. didn't your mom teach you this before u went to college? Most guys have a count [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:33 PM Flag
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Guess [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:34 PM Flag
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This. It's all about the numbers. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:35 PM Flag
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Are you 80 years old though? I can’t imagine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:34 PM Flag
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I can. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:34 PM Flag
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NP. Is it more likely guys will hit on me in a three star hotel bar or a two star one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:34 PM Flag
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Ha. And we all worry about our husbands going out and picking up some hot 25 YO. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:37 PM Flag
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Calling bullshit; the guy would never give his full real name and employer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:41 PM Flag
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Op: but he did; he runs a (seemingly) successful business, and MIL thought he was trying to show off and impress her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:44 PM Flag
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^^maybe is figured an 80 year old great grandmother wouldn’t remember or be savvy enough to look him up (and tbh, she didn’t think to look him up - I’m the one who suggested it). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:47 PM Flag
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*maybe “he” figured [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:50 PM Flag
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You sound like you have experience with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:51 PM Flag
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Such a fake post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:50 PM Flag
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Gotta love UB. Either the post is fake, or else the situation is totally normal and OP shouldn’t be surprised. No middle ground. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:24 PM Flag
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Some guys last to be the last one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:12 PM Flag
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It would not be hard to impress an elderly woman. She may be wealthy and leave him everything. A win for a half hour of grossness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:34 PM Flag
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Op: this is an interesting theory! My MIL is widowed, but her second husband was very wealthy - he ended up leaving her next to nothing, and now she struggles to get by (and we supplement her income), but maybe she led the guy to believe she had a lot of money. I could see her doing this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone has views on Dr. John Ilagan at Weil Cornell? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:22 AM Flag
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No, but get well soon! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:26 AM Flag
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Thank you :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Isn’t it time for real people to replace these spammers? Anyone up? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:01 AM Flag
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Up but getting ready for work. The paid spammers (product shit) is never going to go away though I can't imagine they've ever gotten a single click. The idiot political vigilantes are also here for the long haul, I fear. It's too bad. Toxic as UB can be, it's my favorite mistake. :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:42 AM Flag
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Same. Feels like the end is near though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:02 PM Flag
[ - ] It is gross to not flush a toilet after use, but is it unhealthy? DH travels a bit for work and usually goes out every night to meet up with friends, watch sports, whatever. When he is not home, if I have not pooped, I don't flush, because I just don't see wasting the water. Is that typical, or is it something I should definitely keep to myself irl? 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 07:22 AM Flag
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If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 08:10 AM Flag
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This! Was going to say this but you beat me to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:16 PM Flag
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Standard environmentalist saying. All you other posters sare just so precious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:41 PM Flag
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Normal and acceptable. If it smells bad, flush. Flush at least once a day. And don't let a bunch of toilet paper pile up in the bowl, obvs. Maybe don't talk about it over dinner, but nothing to hide. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:00 AM Flag
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It's fine, but why on earth would you want to discuss it with people irl? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:14 AM Flag
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I don't mean that I would bring it up, more like, is it something I should keep secret if it ever did come up, like if people are talking about water shortages or cleaning or kids forgetting to flush or whatever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:19 AM Flag
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How do you get through the day? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:27 AM Flag
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I get what you mean. I lived in Australia during the last drought there, and this kind of thing was discussed all the time. How long to go between flushes. Put a brick in the cistern, to reduce the flush volume. Put a bucket in the shower to collect water for the plants. Etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:32 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:32 AM Flag
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Seriously, these are conversations your crowd has at social events? IF god fucking forbid I were at a cocktail party or school function and the group turned its attention to toilet flushing pee vs poop, I'd immediately yell HOW BOUT THEM YANKEES AMIRITE; wtf...when does this "come up"? The only person you need to talk to about it is possibly a plumber. The real issue here is your fucking husband going out every night to do single guy stuff while you sit at home wondering about how to discuss bodily fluids with your friends. Seriously, what is going on in your life that he is out "usually every night" to meet up with friends and watch sports while you are home alone mulling over your urine? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:57 AM Flag
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I had a good girlfriend who never flushed a number 1 when she stayed the night. Obviously, her thinking was the flushing would be disruptive. It was totally disgusting and frightening to open the toilet lid to that though. I never mentioned it to her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 09:51 AM Flag
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frightening??? You sound pathetic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:03 AM Flag
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Somebody's got a case of the Mondays... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:30 AM Flag
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6am in Boston & surprised to see anyone on...but yeah, like someone said above...why is dh out every night? I would be more worried about that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 10:04 AM Flag
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Same (and 6:10 in Maine) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 10:11 AM Flag
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He enjoys watching sports at bars with his friends. I like staying home where it's quiet and I can work or veg or have friends over. I've never given it any thought. It's the way we've always been. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 10:20 AM Flag
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You sound fundamentally incompatible and living separate lives...he's partying at bars with the boys and you're pondering your excrement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 10:28 AM Flag
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succinct and to the point...i like your style [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:00 AM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:03 AM Flag
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LOL so he's out blowing hundreds of dollars on booze every week while you're contemplating water waste and how to handle it in potential future conversations? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 10:29 AM Flag
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np It doesn't sound like they have DCs, so money is probably not the issue. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:31 AM Flag
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Just because you don't have kids doesn't mean it's a healthy relationship to have one party drinking in a bar with his boys every night of the week while wallflower wife languishes at home pondering her pee. If she were spending hundreds a week on something wasteful, I'm sure we'd have plenty of shade to throw at her. He must be spending at least $50 a night on booze, and I'm being conservative. Sounds like a lot of problems in this marriage. No quality time spent together, he prefers the company of his friends in a setting meant for singles/early 20somethings, she prefers to be alone, he is blowing money on something with no value, he may have a chemical dependency, and she is so socially anxious she's asking for helpful tips in how to discuss non-flushing when the topic of water conservation comes up at parties. LOTS of problems here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:46 AM Flag
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This...lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 12:40 PM Flag
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I flush it in warm weather. In cold weather, meh, I'd rather not waste potable water. Urine is a nutrient rich environment for bacteria and it definitely develops an odor if not flushed in warm humid weather. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 10:24 AM Flag
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+1 In DC, definitely could not not-flush in summers. Ew. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:30 AM Flag
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I'm wondering how much you've let yourself go in general...tell us more. Do you wear granny panties and muu muus around the house? Brushing the teeth? Why bother if no one else is around etc... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:02 AM Flag
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np Wait... we’re supposed to keep brushing our teeth AFTER we get someone to marry us? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:29 AM Flag
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lolz... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Is the Womp poster the same as the anti-racist troll? What do you think they are like IRL? I am sort of fascinated by this kind of obvious mental illness/OCD 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 07.16.18, 07:13 AM Flag
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None of us floozies was that nuts! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 11:38 AM Flag
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Womp is an anti-Semite racist who goes by the name "Womp Womp Nationalist" on other forums. The anti-racist spammer is not Womp Womp. The spamming started happening when Womp Womp started invading this site with "libs ur all going to die." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.16.18, 01:22 PM Flag
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