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[ - ] When did you first feel the baby move when you were preg with #2? I'm at 17 weeks and haven't felt anything yet. Should I be concerned? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:10 PM Flag
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I hardly ever felt either of my babies (not twins) kick. It all depends where your placenta is. If it anterior it acts as a cushion. [ Reply | More ]
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I think 24 weeks in the average time to feel a kick. It feels like a flutter or gas. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] what are the best hypoallergenic dogs to have with children? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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poodle. Portugese water dog. [ Reply | More ]
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what about a golden doodle? [ Reply | More ]
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not always hypo... you won't know until you test with each individual dog [ Reply | More ]
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really??? that is not good [ Reply | More ]
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np: this is true. we had a labradoodle that shed like mad and was not hypo [ Reply | More ]
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bichon frise. [ Reply | More ]
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mexican hairless [ Reply | More ]
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bobble-head dog in the back of a car window. easy to feed, too. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is the fire in Queens? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] 4mo pp, been back at work for a week. Today someone asked me if I was pregnant. :( 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Sorry about that. People can be so rude. Just know that if it wasn't that it would probably be something else. Just take it one day at a time. [ Reply | More ]
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I hate when ppl that dont know you assume things. I am sorry- that happened to me once too, it was 5 or 6 mos. pp, and some *young* lady got up and said youre pregnant you should sit. I was so embarrased i went home and cried my eyes out. My advice, wear a big coat, you have many months of being able to get away with a large coat. [ Reply | More ]
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people are so stupid. sorry someone said that to you. took me a while to lose it all too and to get back in shape - almost a year. i wohm at 4 months too, the winter was tough b/c i was b/f and had colicky baby, no sleep, tough work/travel schedule. give yourself a break and ignore that loser. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Cute toddler (3 yo) boy clothing brand/website? TIA. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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littleboychic.com [ Reply | More ]
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teacollection.com [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] TTC and wohm full time. I have never been preg (have 9 yr. old step dd). How do you deal with working full time and morning sickness? I know some women work until the last minute...do you just puke your brains out on the train and at work or do you take a lot of days off? 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:53 AM Flag
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but you are not pregnant! you might not have morning sickness! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:55 AM Flag
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I know..but I want to be prepared. A lot of women say their morning sickness lasts all day. I am just wondering how understanding your job can be if you are calling out sick 3 times a week? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:58 AM Flag
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they probably wont be, you just have to have a bag with you at all times [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:00 PM Flag
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agreed. you just deal with getting sick at work or on the bus, train, walking, etc. have bags, water, gum... it's hard but it rarely lasts more than a few months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:02 PM Flag
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fwiw, I rarely got sick other than at home. just felt like I would. it's better to be prepared. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:15 PM Flag
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Oh that sounds horrible! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:03 PM Flag
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it is. about half of women have no sickness and you could have mild sickness if any. I had severe and worse this time around. I couldn't have even worked this time if I weren't a sahm. everyone is different, and every pg is different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:04 PM Flag
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OMG, you may feel very little, you may just be nauseous with no vomiting...how about waiting and seeing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:01 PM Flag
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I never had morning sickness and puked only once (and it was stomach flu at that). I worked literally up until the last minute (got off work at 5, contractions started at 7). You do the best you can. [ Reply | More ]
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i worked from home during morning sickness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:55 AM Flag
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they would never let me work from home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:58 AM Flag
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I was usually sick at home... I never threw up at work. I did have a plastic baggie with me at all times in case [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:56 AM Flag
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But didn't it make you late to work? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:59 AM Flag
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I was sicker than I could have imagined being and worked full time through it. I called in sick a few times (rarely ever before that) and just dealt as best I could. it was awful. you may have no sickness though, so I really wouldn't start worrying now. good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:01 PM Flag
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While the nausea stayed with me all day, I usually new the few hours that I might be certain to vomit (3-5pm-ish) and that time may be different for different people. Not to mention, many don't have ms at all... [ Reply | More ]
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I had mroning sickness but always puked first thing at home. Would eel nauseated at work but just kept saltines at hand. You'll get through it when the time comes. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:06 PM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:07 PM Flag
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get pregnant. get sick. come back and ask how to deal. fwiw - i only had bad headaches while newly pregnant. those who puke rarely puke all nine (ten) months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:07 PM Flag
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ITA - I got very dizzy and had headaches as well but never puked. The dizziness only lasted a few weeks as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:09 PM Flag
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sick 24hrs/day, worked ft never called in sick didn't tell i was preg...puked in bathroom carried baggies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:19 PM Flag
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m/s is the exception, not the rule. You hear abut those who get it b/c it's pretty horrible for them. But most women don't have this problem. Worry about it when/if it happens. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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actually it is very common [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:27 PM Flag
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i used to take an airplane puke bag with me everywhere - just in case. also, honestly, i had to hold my nose while on the subway. when you're that nauseous and close to throwing up, you really don't care how crazy you look. usually threw up at work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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lol - i had to hold my nose this morning due to garlic man next to me - and i am not pg!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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My morning sickness was usually the worst in the mornings and at night. During the day I was mostly fine, as long as I had crackers, lemon sour candies and ginger ale. When I got too hungry, that was when I would think about puking. I lived on bagels and smoothies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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Working was awful for me. Two pregnancies and both times I had bad, bad morning sickness (vomiting 5x a day typically for 4 months) I threw up on the way to work, at work, on the street, everywhere. I carried bags all the time. The 2nd pregnancy everyone knew right away (around 5 weeks along) because of this. It was hard. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Newborn gift: should I get three less expensive shirts or one cashmere kimono wrap for the same price? TIA, the mom complains that her house is cold, hence the cashmere idea... 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] i know its probably just a crap shoot, but any suggestions on how to get a private room after l&d and at what hospitals if any this is easier at? (birthing center at SLR is out because of my risks). 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Expecting 12.08.08, 11:51 AM Flag
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regualr deliveries at SLR they only have 7 private rooms so if you want good odds then SLR for a regular delivery is out too. But I would not choose your hospital by private room avails! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:58 AM Flag
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no, don't worry, im definitely not choosing the hospital based on how many private rooms are available, just curious which are best in this respect, and what tips if any there are for trying to secure one at whichever hospital. its not the end of the world obviously if i dont get one, just thought it would be nicer to have one so my husband can stay over night. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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Not my business but - I would let him go home and rest, get the house ready for baby...in my case DH had to wait for them to deliver the crib, etc... [ Reply | More ]
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what is SLR? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:13 PM Flag
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St Luke's Roosevelt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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I essentially had a private room at SLR. Was in a regular room but had no roommate - it wasn't a very busy day... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 03:38 PM Flag
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it's a crap shoot. when i delivered i asked about the room and the nurse said there were plenty. the next day i heard there was a waiting list. the cheapest is probably ny downtown @ 250 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:06 PM Flag
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We got one at Columbia Presbyterian. They have a (stork society?) or something you can join upon check-in, it is about $200. Upgrades you to private room once one becomes available. [ Reply | More ]
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np I did this. Ended up in shitty room on non-maternity floor. Crappy nurses, too. Couldn't WAIT to get out of there and managed to convince my OB to let me leave a full day early (though I'd had a c/s). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 03:41 PM Flag
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tried this. the rooms were full. it's hit or miss. either there are openings or not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 04:27 PM Flag
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My friend got one at Columbia Presbyterian, and I think I could have had one at SLR. FWIW, I think it was nice for DH to go home, shower, collect himself, etc. but my roommate was surprisingly helpful and normal. I think my family annoyed her... [ Reply | More ]
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As soon as you get to the hospital, make sure DH tells the intake staff that you want a private room, or at least you want to be put on a waiting list for a private room. Then have DH keep inquiring about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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and ask if there is an extra fee and have him fork over the cash PRONTO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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I think NY Cornell hasa fiar # of them plus I think it is probably one of the best hospitals to deliver at in NYC [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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i had to share there both times until a private opened up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 03:13 PM Flag
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Be on the board of the hospital or know someone on the board (seriously the only way to be guarenteed a pvt room - the rest is a crapshoot) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 04:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Minorities complain about being people being racist but most of the racists comments I encounter on streets are also from other minorities different from my own race. I walked pass two guys today and kind of brushed pass them and as I was walking ahead, they first said sorry without realizing who I am then as soon as they saw my face they said racists comments about me being a Chin or Chinese…I pretend to not hear but is very annoyed. In these kind of situation do you say something back or do you not waste your time and ignore.. ? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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If they are not spraying you with a hose or hanging a noose on your mailbox, don't waste your time confronting a jerk. I only confront when someone puts there hands on me or get in my children's faces. Then I break their shit off. I'd guess I'd have a fight all time I confronted someone every time they called me the N-word. [ Reply | More ]
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I agree...plus with so many insane ppl, who knows you could say somethign back and they use it as an excuse to punch you in the face, or worse. [ Reply | More ]
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thanks. just needed to vent a bit.. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What is the *least* helpful thing your DH/sig other has said to you? Mine: "Are you ok?" (then continues watching tv, as I puke into the sink)... 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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[ - ] Hi, I have a question abt advanced parental ages. my husband and I are 39 and had a healthy baby 6 months ago. No amnio: all tests were normal. We are thinking abt having another baby within 1-2 years, but are concerned aboout our age. Will definitely do an amnio next time, but there are many disorders and amnio will not detect. Any thoughts? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:42 AM Flag
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you are too young to worry about this [ Reply | More ]
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only in NY would you get this response! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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ita. definitely not too young. not even close. if really are serious about having another one, you should get pregnant now, not in 2 yrs. it'll be very difficult in the beginning, but you'll be happy to have your kids closer together. [ Reply | More ]
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np: yes, the bugaboo for nyc come with an optional walker for the parents. [ Reply | More ]
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what disorders are you concerned about that amnio won't detect? [ Reply | More ]
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the only thoughts are what you are willing to put yourselves through. i don't have trouble with the idea of having and keeping a challenged child, so to speak. I understand others feel very differently. I think its a deeply personal decision about whether you are prepared for those possible disorders, one only you can make. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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OP here. Sorry to say it, but I am not prepared to deal with any chronic illnesses: our lives are challenging enough with a healthy baby and a 17 year-old, about to go to college. Not to offend anyone in NYC, but isn't it scary to get pregnant and have babies after the big 4-0? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:56 AM Flag
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This would be an issue at any age. Although the risk of downs is higher, I don't think the risk of any other genetic disease that doesn't show up in amnio is higher. So no matter what, it is always scary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:19 PM Flag
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I had my first at 37, second at 41. Had amnio both times. Two healthy children (knock wood). You never know what you are going to get, and parental age has nothing to do with a lot of disorders (e.g., cancer, autism Asperger's, Tourette's, any kind of mental illness or personality disorders, learning diabilities, club foot, epilepsy, congenital heart disease, congenital hip dysplasia, to name a few). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 12:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Any advice on what to do about a sore back before it gets really bad. I had twins 7 months ago, and stomach muscles aren't what they used to be. Is there anything I could do at home (i.e., not yoga classes or chiropractor)? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:39 AM Flag
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warm baths, try a pilates dvd? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:41 AM Flag
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Strength training. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:42 AM Flag
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pilates. [ Reply | More ]
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reading john sarno books helped me [ Reply | More ]
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google back exercises and see what you can handle [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] what are you tipping doormen, handy men, super etc. this year? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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we give $50 to the 5 doorman we know and know us, then $300 to the general pool for all to share [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] which dollhouse would you rec for 4 y/o? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:38 AM Flag
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Seriously. Why do you ask this every day? [ Reply | More ]
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gosh, sorry, never asked before. guess i'm not the only one with a 4 y/o who wants a dollhouse? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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We like the fisher price families one. You can generally find a good price-break on the house. But the rooms of furniture are expensive. We let the relatives know we were getting the house, so they could get rooms. [ Reply | More ]
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my dd isn't old enough yet, but when i was that age, i had a weeble wobble village. [ Reply | More ]
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ryan's room or melissa and doug [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I hereby nominate John Thain for jerk of the day award, for demanding a $10 million bonus. JERK. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 12.08.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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Day? Week or month at least. [ Reply | More ]
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Ok, you got me: Year. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Anyone take dc to see Santa at Bloomingdales or Macy's yet? What are the lines like? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 12.08.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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The first person on line punched Santa so they shut it down. [ Reply | More ]
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Macy's or Bloomingdales?!? [ Reply | More ]
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I am kidding. I made it up. I figure everyone is so mad this year they would punch Santa out. [ Reply | More ]
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Oh, ha. I thought you might be right, since I can't find anything on the Macy's website about Santa. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] apparently the $hit is all going down at merrill and b of a next monday. a lot of layoffs coming. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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in addition to cs and db who took last week. [ Reply | More ]
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how do you know this? dh works at bofa and he hasn't said anything yet. [ Reply | More ]
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tell dh to ask around the bank - there has to be some scuttlebut on the layoffs. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Does your DH care about people that you dated/ hooked up with prior to meeting him. I think it is ridiculous that he wants me to divulge all of this type of info and gets very upset if I try to skirt the issue. I don't want to discuss this with him and I don't care what he did before me. Makes me think he has some issues of trust with me. Makes me sad because we have a great relationship- I think, except for this one bump in the road. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My DH didn't care, but boy he doesn't want to know the truth. Tee. Hee. All kidding aside, if he wanted to know the number or specific acts, I would very matter of factly tell him 1. it was none of his business what I did before I met him and 2. I do not wish to discuss this topic in the future and if he persisted in bringing it up I would leave the room. Now if he wanted to know about STDs, have I've been tested for HIV or had an abortion I would answer those questions freely and honestly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:31 AM Flag
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Oh, ask him why is he asking? If he says just curious, he lies like a rug. Oh, and have you guys been tested for everything? If my husband started questioning me about my partners, I would suspect an STD (perhaps a dormant one) has reared its ugly head. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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OP: No STDs- no issues with pregnancy... I think it is a jealously thing or issue with not knowing me then. I don't really know [ Reply | More ]
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OP: Oh I would def. be very honest when it came to those issues. The funny thing is my DH is the only person that I have slept with. I have tried telling him that I don't think it is his buisness nor is it fair for him to want to know this type of info- especially when I dont request it of him. He is just very inquisitive about any of the guys from the past... it is starting to make me nuts [ Reply | More ]
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np: does he know he's the only person and still question you? this sounds very controlling to me that he cares so much about such unimportant stuff from your past. [ Reply | More ]
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I'm suspicious of the "very inquisitive". I just don't buy it. There is something else behind those questions, especially since he's the only man you've been with. Either he doesn't believe you or he's up to something and projecting his guilt onto you. He wouldn't be the first spouse to do this. I'm nosy as hell, but I do not want any details on the women of my husband's past. [ Reply | More ]
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My DH doesn't care. He's definitely of the "don't ask, don't tell" policy. More because I don't think he'd want a visual in his head, kwim? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:35 AM Flag
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sounds potentially controlling. i would firmly let him know that those people are part of your past, where you intend to leave them (meaning not even discuss them). [ Reply | More ]
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Op: that is good. I have told him that I won't discuss it and that he needs to stop bringing it up. I will try your approach- looking to put it way behind us. I do not intend to be 40 and discussing high school boyfriends with my husband. so silly!! [ Reply | More ]
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psych here, he is insecure about himself and wants to make sure you didnt do anything in the past that you are not doing with him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:44 AM Flag
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Please tell me if I'm assuming too much, but are you and your husband of some sort of ethnic descent? This man doesn't sound sound like a red-blooded, American, CME (Christmas, Mother's Day, Easter christian, lol) male. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.08.08, 11:53 AM Flag
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