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[ - ] db is 15 mos and dh and i can't get our sex life back on track. have sex 1-3 times a month and i'm always so tired and just lie there and he's dissatisfied and i'm tired. our relationship is great, but not the easiest one to begin with, so i'm really scared that if we're 30-something with major sex issues, we can't survive this. dh won't see a couples therapist. help. any suggestions? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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That's easy. Have your grandparents, friends, sitter watch your kids once a month and go on an overnight together. Do the things you loved doing together before you had kids. Sleep in and have morning sex... worked wonders for us! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:12 AM Flag
[ - ] this hell's kitchen show is terrible and mean 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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the show or the chef? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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yes- but GR is so freaking hot and has the best food in his restaurants you can forgive him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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eeewwww. hot? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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he's hot in a mean sort of way.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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yeah - condescending abusive assholes always turn me on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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me, too... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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his wrinkles are so deep you could run the F train through them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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there's just something sexy about that man... don't know what it is. maybe its the gruffness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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you have issues if you think that mean SOB is hot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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he is very good looking and polite in person... he was there one of the times we had dinner at the London. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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he is hot. my friend has gone to london twice -- i've got to go there one of these days. i hear the bon bon cart is to die for. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:50 PM Flag
[ - ] We picked a Bar Mitzvah date for ds (or rather, the date picked us - we waited to long and I'm not thrilled with what remained). So what am I really worrying about? Telling my mom, who is uber critical. Why do I give such power over me? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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because she's your MOM [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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why will she have a problem with the date? is it on a high holiday? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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Cause it's in early December and she'll say "maybe it will snow, and no one will come, and it's too close to the holidays, and no one will come, and why did you wait so long to pick a date anyway, and blah blah blah!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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blame it on the rabbi and call it a day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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why would she care....she sounds like a nighmare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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because you are still seeking and/or needing her approval. you're all grown up now. you did good! now, it's time to let your mom know that. tell her the date works for you and have no further discussion on the subject. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:49 PM Flag
[ - ] My ds's birthday is coming up. He will be 1. Should I do a party with just family or invite some friends. I keep going back and forth and can't decide. What have others done? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Preschool/Kids 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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family only, the whole thing will last 10 minutes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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family only.seriously [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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we had a party in our apt and invited allof dbs little baby friends and their parents, plus g-parents. It was a great way to meet the working parents in the nabe.....let our nanny tell us who her playgroup friends were. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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now here is a perspective I would not think of... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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we're having some friends but only b/c we're doing it at my parents beach house and some are down (most will not make the trip JUST for the party so it works out well!) just brunch food and thats it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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family only. too much otherwise. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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That's what I'm thinking. My ds is not in daycare--grandparents are the daycare--and I feel he is too young to know if any kids are around. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
[ - ] ds is so stressed about middle school finals this week. I feel bad for him. He has straight A average all year...but the gets so stressed. He tutors some of his friends and I think its just too much 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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poor kid -- that was me in school but i always aced tests anyway... hope he does well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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I am sure he will--but he is never convinced [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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Toddler 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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what's the prob bob? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
[ - ] dh and I have been sniping at each other all evening, as we cleaned up the disaster area of our apartment. We may not be speaking, but at least we cleaned the desk, the old pile of mail, and organized the cds. Was it worth it? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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nice. i'd say so. are you friends again now? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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We're speaking civilly again. I think if we ever had to move again, our marriage would be over. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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it feels good to clean up in anger but even better to have sex in anger and then kiss and make up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:37 PM Flag
[ - ] good hotel recs for just dh and me in miami? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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loews was really nice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:34 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm so bad. Just separated and emailed a pro-surfer that I used to hook up with. We would make dates all over the globe just for sex. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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oh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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were you a little surfer girl? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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No, photographer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
[ - ] any recommendations for a great paint color for a home office...not too bold/distracting, not going to put me to sleep? tia 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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Oracle by C2. Love it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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Benjamin Moore Smoke or RH Silver Sage [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:43 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone have a j.crew discount code? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Dh is so mopey and passive aggressive. I hate it. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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sounds like my dh. i hate it too. in fact, mine is traveling right now and i feel like i have so much more energy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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enjoy your time away from him. it's so frustrating because i want to fix it, but it's not my problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know what it takes to call yourself an interior designer? Im doing a major renovation of house and want to decorate myself but want to be able to buy from "for the trade only" vendors and get designer discounts. Can you just say you are a designer or do you have to join some professional association? TIA 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 05.27.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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for $30 I had some business cards printed up and I was good to go [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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no one asked any questions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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I think you have to sell one thing a year. You can have your mom or a friend buy something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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For some places you need a business license, card, and cancelled check. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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where are you? I have a house I need completely renovated. I'll hire you to do mine and I'll call you an interior designer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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Ha. I think between my 2dcs and trying to do my own project I'll be more then maxed out on stress. But maybe after Im done I'll have to start a new biz! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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some places may require that you have a tax ID number and a retail license. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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i would think it's a tax thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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the fact that you don't have a tax resale number when you buy the products will give you away [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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is it hard to get a tax resale number? is that a tax ID number? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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you'll have to contact your state's sales tax office for their criterias [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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the lower price is partly because it is assumed you are paying sales tax. If you don't pay the tax, you will get into trouble eventually if you are caught. They are also assuming that you are a professional and will do volume, so it is worth it to them. And that you are marking up, which you need to do if you are really in business. If you are just playing around, it doesn't really matter. If you are pretending to be a professional, and have no idea what that means, and have no standards or real ability to run a business, you will screw yourself and your client eventually. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 07:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know if a women's shoe size 4 is the same as a kid's shoe size four? Any hints as to how the sizes line up? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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kids sizes go up to 12 I think and then it starts over. A kids size 4 is a toddler. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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I call that a baby or toddler size 4. But I guess you could use the word "youth" if you prefer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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my 13 month old wears size 4 and 1/2 trust me your feet are bigger than his [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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you live in a very narrow world; give it a few years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:49 PM Flag
[ - ] please explain to me braxton hicks. when do they start? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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different for everyone. I think I started with #1 around 30 weeks, but then much earlier w/ #2. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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in my 20+ weeks. all the sudden my belly got super tight and 3 seconds later back to normal. and didn't happen that often [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:32 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone had to convince DH to have #2? I've fluctuated on the issue but now that dd is 4, I miss having a baby and feel the family is imcomplete. What was your argument that made your DH come around and see things the way you do? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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I really really want 3 dcs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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How many do you have? Is DH done? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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we have 3dcs and I really wanted 4---but I was reluctant to "roll the dice" again, so I stopped. Dh was not totally sure about #3 , now is happy as a clam [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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wow. glad it worked out for you, even if you didn't get 4. I had a lot of trouble even having one so we would have to do ivf again or adopt. It's no small decision. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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i grew up with 1 sib 11 years younger. i was so lonely most of my childhood and even now that we're both older, our age gap is so significant that it's hard to feel that close to her. convinced dh that sibs are important - and recognized i was probably projecting my own issues... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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We had 2 and I told him that I wanted #3 to complete our family. I told him he would never complain that there are too many kids at the holiday table. It took a long time becasue we were over 40 and had a boy and a girl and both worked but he was a prince and we went through 4 yrs of fertility treatments. Today he's 7 and dh adores him, as do I. gl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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yeah, we are 42 (me) and 40 (him) and had to do ivf for #1. As much as I hate to go through that again, I would if it meant having a larger family...or we would adopt. DD begs for a sibling and I have come to really want that too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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go for it - I'll be thinking of you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:45 PM Flag
[ - ] my 10 mo is now sitting up in his crib and it's so cute :) he has a musical lamb and aquarium. anything i can put in there that's safe and may entertain him for a bit? soft books? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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soft books - one of those crib mirrors that has toys on it (sassy makes a good one) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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thanks. do you think it's TOO distracting for babies sometimes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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my dds are both great sleepers so I never worried about that - I also swear by the fisher price lullabye bird toy that projects pics on the ceiling - they both loved it - FP doesn't make it anymore but you can get them on ebay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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he's a great sleeper but it tool him time to get used to the aquarium and now uses it to fall asleep and to play early in the AM. the mobiles were always too much for him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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we always had books in dbs bed...board books and paper. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.27.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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