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[ - ] Will be interviewing a nanny for the first time. What to look for and be aware of? My daughter is 18mths. We're both finance professionals who work long hours. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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the ONLY thing that matters is what she has been doing before this. Talk to her past 3 nanny jobs. how long was she at them ? you must speak with those moms. that is the ONLY way to know . as far as meeting her, go on your gut, if she is someone you want in your home raising your most precious sweet baby. ask her about philosophy in child rearing, schedules, nap schedules, as baby gets older does she like to arrange playdates, read books, sing songs etc. is she bilingual, english speaking etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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Or, here is a thought. Raise your baby yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:13 AM Flag
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Aaw, dh won't let you hire help? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:18 AM Flag
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Yes I have help with cleaning, not something as crucial as taking care of my baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:31 AM Flag
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Oh fuck off. There’s nothing wrong with having a career and a child. It teaches children that they can do both. A lesson you obviously never learned [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:21 AM Flag
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Fuck off? Sounds like the nanny is the better choice to raise your kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:32 AM Flag
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Won't they all give the "right" answers to those sorts of questions though? Nobody is going to say No, I don't believe in reading to children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:21 AM Flag
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Watch how she interacts with your baby. Once I saw how my nanny handled my baby, I had no questions. She washed her hands, was loving and so sweet with baby. Best of luck!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:19 AM Flag
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Yes. Do a paid trial day. Listen while she reads to the baby. Have her speak on the phone to someone unsympathetic, like your MIL. Write out your requirements in detail. Ask what happens if you unexpectedly come home two hours late. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:22 AM Flag
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If you come home two hours late she can rule you out for that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:51 AM Flag
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Not flaming, just curious. Why have a child if you both work long hours? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
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iKR. Why have a kid and then outsource raising? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:33 AM Flag
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Troll [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:59 AM Flag
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To pay for TT private [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:01 AM Flag
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For me, I would want to know how Nanny was raised, educated, cared for. Also, what about her commute. if they have children, how are they turning out, etc. You really need to trust the person. Good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:21 AM Flag
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Hire someone with experience who has worked as a nanny and/or had her own kids. Be explicit about the job - tell her there will be long hours, etc. If you want her to do any cooking or cleaning, be totally upfront. It'll cost you dearly later if it wasn't part of the job description. Hire a nice person with experience. She doesn't need to "fake love" your child the moment she sees her, but should seem comfortable around kids. We hired a sweet nanny who also had dinner ready (nothing fancy) when we came home from work if possible. She has now been with us for a decade and we are on kid #3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Have we discussed the doctor who was found dead by his 11yo daughter today in his Park Ave apt? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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Link? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:59 AM Flag
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Just check nypost.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:05 AM Flag
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how sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:02 AM Flag
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So sad. Amazing surgeon. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:07 AM Flag
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Suicide rates are rising very rapidly among white men. Not rising among non white men. Futurists say in the future more than 40% of white men will die of suicide (not natural causes) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:17 AM Flag
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Why? Their boy is in the WH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:20 AM Flag
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Futurists? What do the presentists say? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:33 AM Flag
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You pulled that statistic out of your ass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:05 AM Flag
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wow stabbing yourself in the chest takes some balls [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
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Seriously, geez. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:31 AM Flag
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He was a surgeon. He had skillz with knives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:35 AM Flag
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Apparently! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:47 AM Flag
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Strange choice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:41 AM Flag
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They really need to rule this death a possible homicide and investigate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:48 AM Flag
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doorman knows who was home. and 11 year old witness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:57 AM Flag
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That's how Elliot Smith did it too, though I find it suspicious that someone could actually do this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:01 AM Flag
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I hope his little girl didn't find him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:50 AM Flag
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she did [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I was going in for a colonoscopy and I texted DH (long story but he had to be out of town that day so he was not the one to take me). He knew I was super nervous. I texted him before I went in and said I'm going to the colonoscopy now. And he responded, "ok love. best of luck." Should this bother me? It really does. Best of luck??? Am I being too sensitive. 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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Unless there’s a backstory, I think you’re being overly sensitive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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Sounds sweet... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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what did you want him to say ? seems typically DH-like . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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I wanted him to say it was going to be ok and i love you and a bunch of comforting stuff like that. The other thing that bothers me is that he typed that and then he put down his phone and continued with his day like that was that. I felt like it was a big deal and I wanted him to care more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:59 AM Flag
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You are really needy - he wrote something sweet. No, he's not going to fret all day because he knows you'll be fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:02 AM Flag
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remember what happened to joan rivers. not every circumstance ends up "fine" when under a doctors care. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:04 AM Flag
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op: thanks. I am kind of needy about medical stuff. I was worried sick over anesthesia. It sounds like I need to chill on this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:13 AM Flag
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It’s a 20 minute procedure, you weren’t going in for brain surgery. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:15 AM Flag
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if i were going in for brain surgery, i would expect a lot more than what i did expect which is everything will be ok i love you call me as soon as you wake up i'll be thinking about you etc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:20 AM Flag
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Yes, you're being to sensitive. Maybe he could have been a little more supportive, but he also could Have been super busy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:39 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:02 AM Flag
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Not the best choice of words. "Don't worry, everything will be fine!" would've been better. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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I get it. Best of luck is on the level of Have a nice day or something in this context. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:59 AM Flag
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op: yes it's like what you say to your neighbor's friend when you meet them at your neighbor' party and find out they are having a medical procedure with anesthesia. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:01 AM Flag
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NP. agree with all. but is he not a Man?. men are not emotional or sensitive as women are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:02 AM Flag
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oh my god this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:11 AM Flag
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op: ok fair enough. thank you. you ladies have put it in perspective for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:13 AM Flag
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Let this go [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:21 AM Flag
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ty, ty i will! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
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Is he a Brit? That's how they talk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:22 AM Flag
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no :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
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Too bad while they were in there they didn't remove the stick from your ass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:26 AM Flag
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This is a damn colonoscopy, not brain surgery. Time for you to grow up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:07 AM Flag
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I had a colonoscopy last week and was nervous about it. I think you sound overly sensitive. My DH had to sit in the waiting room and frankly I would have been embarrassed if I had been freaking out in public and expecting him to reassure me before they took me back. And really, now that's it's over, wasn't it a piece of cake? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:21 AM Flag
[ - ] My 15 year old daughter went to a party last night and slept at her friend's house. The mother of the kid who had the party called today and said my daughter was drinking. They know because of security cameras. What do you think her punishment should be? When confronted she said she had a sip. 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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Do the cosby show trick on Vanessa [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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Check the footage. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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This. Have you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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i dont think you should 'confront'. you should sit her down and talk to her about some devastating effects of drinking. i.e.: frat kids death at colleges, drinking / driving deaths of teens, et al. but unfortunately she will experiment. as we all did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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Op does not own a time machine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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Well clearly no more parties until she's 18. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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Maybe 30 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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She lied..she didn’t sleep there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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I would ask to see footage so I knew if it was a sip. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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Did the mother of the kid who had the party say WHY THE HELL THEY WERE SERVING ALCOHOL TO MINORS??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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This. Why were they not monitoring teenage guests in their own home? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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Have you forgotten how easy it is to sneak booze into a party? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:24 AM Flag
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No parties... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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very realistic [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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For the next 3 months..easy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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Honestly, I'd make her get loaded with me. And then let her puke all over the place. You can lecture all you want, but nothing makes you hate drinking more than a terrible hangover. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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We used that with smoking. Had to smoke a pack in front of us [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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Write tree of apology to the parents. Give $ to replace the booze if stolen from them. No more visits to that friends house period. No parties until end of school year. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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Letter not tree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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I started drinking around that age because I was in a country that allows it. By the time I went to college I was over it. I don't think putting off alcohol until 21 is helping our kids but I do think it is important to follow the laws of the country you are in. I would punish her for breaking the law and talk about why we have the laws around alcohol that we have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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I'd ask her why she wasn't supervising the party vs. watching security footage (!) and tattling after the fact? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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Tattling? What is wrong with you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:59 AM Flag
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Where were these parents during the party? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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Where were the parents during the party? I’d have called and confirmed they’d be supervising before I let DC go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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Ok did we not all drink at this age? I know I did. I think the best thing you can do is talk to her about drinking responsibly - of course you say she shouldn't be drinking under 21 but if she does she needs to be safe. She can always call you if she gets in trouble, know her limit, etc. The more emphasis you put on not drinking the more she will want to rebel and do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:14 AM Flag
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We did not all drink at this age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:27 AM Flag
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Wow, that is some parenting. Good luck to your kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:28 AM Flag
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OP this is the right answer. If you just punish or forbid parties she's going to sneak behind your back. Be realistic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:37 AM Flag
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I agree w all but the 21 part. I would make the emphasis more on it being best to wait to start drinking until her mind and body are ready for it. BUT if she is going to drink now, know x, y and z to stay safe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:45 AM Flag
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wise answer. of course they're all drinking and probably trying smoking cigarettes or pot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:31 AM Flag
[ - ] ospm are you on tonight? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:44 AM Flag
[ - ] I bought our nanny for 10 yr gift a Celine purse. What to get for Christmas? Ex pays her and gives bonus so I am thinking IPhone 8 (hers is in bad shape). Other ideas? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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that would be nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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Cash. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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I can give her that but she gets a bonus of a week’s salary. She loves fashion. She wears better stuff than I do. Lanvin flats..lots of Chloe outfits. I thought her phone would be practical. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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How much does she get paid??? I need a gig like this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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$25 an hour on the books..health insurance [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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Hello, are you confused to find a shipping service in Bali? I recommend you to use www.gogopaket.com The first price comparison pricing website in indonesia bali. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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Don’t understand..what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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it's spam [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:55 AM Flag
[ - ] Going to a twin bar/bat mitzvah next weekend in NYC. Very wealthy family. How much to give each child? Parents are very good long time friends, I am not very wealthy. 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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I’d give $48 each [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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No way. That’s really cheap. At least $100 each. You can’t give less because two at the same time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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Np $100 is not a correct amount for bar mitzvah [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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For a single child of a good friend I'd give $180. But $180x2 is a LOT [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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But that’s too bad. If the kids were two years apart, you would give it. So you have to suck it up and do it now. Then you don’t have to do it again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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There is no "correct" amount. Multiples of 18 may be traditional, but certainly not required. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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This. I got plenty of $100 and $150 checks at mine. And I was grateful for any of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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What number says "I love you and your children so here's a lovely gift" when you aren't as wealthy as the family receiving? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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I said at least $100. You can figure out the multiple. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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$216 each? Trust me, they will be recording who gave what. You can't cheap out on this one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:55 AM Flag
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What???? First of all, should be a multiple of 9. Second, It doesn't need to be anything like this. I'd do $90 each. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:10 AM Flag
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Gift is for the kids, not the parents. And it doesn't matter how wealthy they are or how ritzy. Give what is right for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:10 AM Flag
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Aww you're cute. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:17 AM Flag
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No. I'm a wealthy jewish mom on the upper east side whose kids went to Emanu-El. I do not care how much people give to my kids and if I find my kids carefully counting it, I'll be horrified. We are inviting people to a party to share a milestone in our child's life and ours. All we want is a gesture and their best wishes for our kid. Anyone who wants more than that for hosting people to a fancy party they are throwing because they want to is just a really shallow lame person. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:37 AM Flag
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You are nice. I wish you were my friend. Unfortunately, in my circle, ppl very much care how much you gift them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:26 AM Flag
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so am i! S and K? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Please help me find a modern 3 hole faucet for our 1/2 bath in basement. The bathroom is all white. Thank you so much! https://www.homedepot.com/p/Glacier-Bay-Shaila-30-5-in-W-Bath-Vanity-in-White-with-Cultured-Marble-Vanity-Top-in-White-with-White-Basin-PPSOFWHT30/205428781 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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Op-range approx $200 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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I have this and like it: https://www.build.com/kohler-k-10577-4-bathroom-faucet/s557922?uid=214275. Don't know your style, but you might also want to swap out the hardware on the vanity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:31 AM Flag
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Go with Moen. Do not buy from Home Depot, though. Buy from a proper plumbing supply that sells the higher quality version. Moen has the BEST warranty. Buy once and you are set as long as you own your home. The finish starts to go? They'll send you a new faucet. The cartridge wears out? They'll send you free parts. I am a customer for life. They have a lot of modern designs. Check it out: https://www.moen.com/bathroom/faucets/sink-faucets?installationType=8%22+Widespread [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:40 AM Flag
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np- those are all so ugly. I hate the broad bottom on faucets. she has a tight budget, but you could do American standard, possibly rohl. Graff is gorgeous, but too pricy for the basement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:44 AM Flag
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Faucets can be seriously discounted if you shop wisely at online plumbing supply companies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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yes of course. and if you have a builder or designer discount [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:48 AM Flag
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^^^this is on our basement bathroom and it looks better installed than not. It turned out to be one of my favorite bathrooms in out house and it's for our au pair! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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we used this one in our mud room bath. also very happy with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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Op-I like that style. I prefer to spend less. The bathroom is seldom used. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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General Topics 12.11.17, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] any advice? i'm overseas visiting inlaws. my 8 month old is sick and has been in the hospital the past two days. he's home tonight and we literally cannot put him down anywhere to sleep. he was never like this before getting sick 53 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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Where are you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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She's in France. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:34 AM Flag
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He was hospitalized..hold him. Geez! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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They are in France. Instead of taking care of the baby, she keeps posting about the sick baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:31 AM Flag
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omg what else do you want me to do while holding a sick sleeping baby [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:34 AM Flag
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Hold the baby..not text. You realize the germs from the phone are transferred on your hands to the baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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come on now you just being obnoxious. just sit here all night holding baby staring at the wall? i haven't slept more than a few hours a day since last monday so i would be asleep in 2 minutes if i wasn't on the phone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:39 AM Flag
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Watch a movie [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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Take baby to bed with you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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Stop! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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what a nasty bitch you are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:39 AM Flag
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how can i sleep? we are staying at sil place, im scared to hold him sleeping in the bed? we took the mattress out of the crib and put it on the floor so i've been trying to lay down next to him but the second inputbhimndown he screams [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:32 AM Flag
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He may have an ear infection and FYI...you don’t sleep. Get a sitter for the day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:33 AM Flag
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Aren't you a DOCTOR? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:33 AM Flag
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Why would op be a doctor??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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In the first post about how horrible thr hospital was the otger night, sge claimed to be a MD [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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That sounds like most babies. They like to be held [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:34 AM Flag
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Teething. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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Sleep with him in your bed. put him in between you and your partner unless either of you are overweight/extremely heavy sleepers. Take the pillows off the bed and loose heavy blankets. He's scared because of the hospital and nervous to separate. And put him in a carrier and wear him as much as possible until he's feeling more secure again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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Let him sleep with you. If you are afraid he will somehow fall out of the bed put your mattress on the floor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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Something is wrong. Go back to the MD. Signed nurse mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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I hope you're neither a nurse nor a mom, because that's really stupid... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:39 AM Flag
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How about letting him fall asleep in your arms and then put him down? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:40 AM Flag
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i've tried that like 20 times. the second my hand pulls away hebisnscreaming [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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My only suggestion is to give it an extra few minutes, so he falls more deeply asleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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thanks i will try [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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Yes. Wait till he's in REM sleep. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:09 AM Flag
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I replied to you yesterday. First thing in the morning, go see Dr Lovejoy at the American Hospital. He went to John’s Hopkins and is excellent. And sick babies need to be held! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:40 AM Flag
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thanks but bay is otherwise doing much better. but maybe he does have an ear infection or something like the poster above said [ Reply | More ]
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Have someone check his ears. But really, he is sick and in a strange place. Traveling with babies is hard, especially if they get sick. Hold him and cosleeo now. Figure out the sleep issues when you get back home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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Babies get sick. I had a sick child for 5 years, in and out of the hospital. If he feels better sleeping in your arms, let him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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Babies get sick. I had a sick child for 5 years, in and out of the hospital. If he feels better sleeping in your arms, let him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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Not realistic. How many hours can YOU realistically hold a baby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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in a carrier, indefinitely. My child wanted to be held ALL THE TIME when he was a baby. And now he's a very happy independent 4 year old. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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And you know op has a carrier ... how? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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Most people with babies do...? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:56 AM Flag
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I have done it all night several nights. Where is DH? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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Mine slept on me in a rocking chair from 3 weeks old to 6 months [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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Co sleeping mom here. All night if need be. If its TGAT he needs propping up - you can try stroller by your bed. Heat it up with heating pad (sometimes it's the temp change from your arms to cold sheet that wakes them) just take it out before baby goes in . Rub your warn clothes on the sheets for smell too. But the easiest is to prop up on your chest or belly (them sideways in bed between you and dh [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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Honey, if you have a 8 m/o and this is the first time you've been up all night, count yourself lucky [ Reply | More ]
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This...honestly---not sure the fuss. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:53 AM Flag
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Actually, she's been up quite a few nights. So quick we are to judge rudely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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No other adults to help? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:58 AM Flag
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Well I traded off with dh. And we did put baby into stroller with a slight incline and wheeled him around a bit. Realistically? As much as needed b/c he was very very ill as a child? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:51 AM Flag
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Push your own bed next to a wall and you sleep with him there. Make sure you put pillows at the bottom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:45 AM Flag
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No, I wouldn't advise sleeping with an ill child on a cushy mattress. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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Don't be silly. Co seeping is fine. The parents aren't drunk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:57 AM Flag
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I wouldn't. A sick baby should be on a hard surface or risk SIDS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:06 AM Flag
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Warm moist washcloth against ear...what was wrong with baby? Cold? Flu? other? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:59 AM Flag
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He has the World's Most Dramatic Virus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:00 AM Flag
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My child did not touch the ground for months after being born. He slept on or with someone. You can do this [ Reply | More ]
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oh my [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:07 AM Flag
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When my kids were babies and had nasty respiratory viruses or colds, I would prop myself up and let them sleep on me so they stayed at an angle and have the connection w me. Unless uncomfortable for some reason, kept skin to skin contact. Was I uncomfortable, yes? But the gravity helped the baby w breathing and I was able to find them comfortable positions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:52 AM Flag
[ - ] For a scheduled C-Section at Lenox Hill, how many nights did you stay in the hospital? This is our second DC but first c-section. Baby is breech. Thx. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:27 AM Flag
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C section is generally 3 nights in the hospital. It's about the insurance, not the hospital. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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wrong. they won't let you out of the hospital with c/s until you've had a bowel movemoent, which for me was 5 days. Not unusual. Tgey need to make sure you don't have an obstruction from the surgery. Standard. And 4 to 5 days is the average. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:42 AM Flag
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You're the one who's wrong. Insurance determines how many days you get. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:03 AM Flag
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Wrong! I had 2 C-Sections, one at Lenox Hill, and like the other poster mentioned, insurance approved 3 nights. I left after 2 (without a bowel movement). [ Reply | More ]
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I had a week for each of mine, but those were many years ago. I wouldn't go home sooner than 4 days [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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This is one of the main reasons I'm scheduling a C section for my third. There is NO WAY I'm going home with a newborn to a 4 year old and 2 year old before 3-4 days have passed. [ Reply | More ]
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Def. get some help! That's a lot to deal with. My 2 are 7 years apart. [ Reply | More ]
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Uh, you'll be much better off going home after 2 days having not had major surgery [ Reply | More ]
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Trust me. We in no way want to have this c section. Had a lovely vaginal birth experience at lenox Hill two years ago, and was expecting the same. But the baby had had her head up in my ribs the entire time, we are 38 weeks, and they won’t deliver her in this position. Super bummed bc we are scheduled for a c section 12/21, and with what the folks above are writing, it looks like we won’t be home to enjoy christmas eve in our new house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:09 AM Flag
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Did they say why they aren't trying a version? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:13 AM Flag
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Because it's Lenox Hill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:20 AM Flag
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My last baby came out w the chord around its neck. It was a long chord. They don’t want chord issues. Also baby is measuring large with a skull above the 95th %, so they think it might all be a sign that this baby isn’t turning and engaging bc of large head. [ Reply | More ]
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Well, insurance may cover 4 nights but it doesn't mean you have to stay all 4 nights. Of course, they will want to make sure you are okay and going home after only 2 nights after a C-section seems early. I gave birth vaginally and via C-section and the recovery from C-section was much tougher in my case. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:07 AM Flag
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Not Lenox Hill but stayed 3 nights, and hospital gave me the option of staying a 4th. NO THANKS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Baby question: I know baby’s still in the womb eat through their umbilical cord but how do they shit? Is their shit going to be floating around in me? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:25 AM Flag
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They don't shit. It builds up in intestines and first time it comes out is shortly after birth [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:33 AM Flag
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9 months of shit? Jesus. Must be the epitome of a shit show. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:19 AM Flag
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They don't eat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:01 AM Flag
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Please read books. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:33 AM Flag
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Most fetuses don't poop inside. When they do, it is called meconium, which usually occurs as a result of stress. It is a problem if the fetus aspirates meconium. Usually not an issue. If it is, the doctor will treat the baby. It doesn't help to worry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:36 AM Flag
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Please get sterilized immediately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:39 AM Flag
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Too bad nobody sterilized your whore mother [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:17 AM Flag
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They don't "eat", they get their nutrients through the blood. The waste likewise goes through the blood--mom's body cleans the blood in the liver like always. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:44 AM Flag
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WHY DO YOU ALL RESPOND TO TROLLS? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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Trolls need ejamication too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:54 AM Flag
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Haha [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Any Weight Watchers moms on? How are you finding the new program? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:23 AM Flag
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And this is the perfect encapsulation of what this site has become. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:26 AM Flag
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LOL. I have been here for years (DD is a teen, have been off and on for a decade) and have seen many posts about weight watchers. Sorry it is too low brow for you (I'm not OP btw) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:27 AM Flag
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I'd say this reply is the best example of what UB has become! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:46 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:01 AM Flag
[ - ] How disorganized are you? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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My cable was turned off the other day because I forgot to pay the bill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:19 AM Flag
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autopay [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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I have ADD and need a PA to keep my life organized so very [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:19 AM Flag
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A full time person? Are you a sahm or an exec? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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The two choices [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:39 AM Flag
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In what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:19 AM Flag
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Anything? I emailed all of my clients a december schedule, asked if there were any conflicts, listed my travel dates, etc. So many people didn't respond, and most of them expected me to show up for things they did not confirm. Is this normal??? If I send you a time and place and you don't respond, even after follow ups, I am not coming. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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Clients? Unclench. You are not a priority [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:31 AM Flag
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Well, if I am not a priority and they aren't going to confirm meetings, they shouldn't be upset when I don't show up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:37 AM Flag
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Way to run a business! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:37 AM Flag
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Well, if people don't respond to emails, what can I do other than find better clients?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:50 AM Flag
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Super organized at work. Nanny takes care of much of the house stuff. She organizes all the closets and drawers, plans meals, shops and cooks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:23 AM Flag
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Not at all. Hyper organized. Paperwork accumulates minimally during week and then I tackle it one day when my work load is less. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:25 AM Flag
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Super organized about things like cabinets and drawers - less so about making plans or running errands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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I'm the opposite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:58 AM Flag
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Super organized about things like cabinets and drawers - less so about making plans or running errands. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:28 AM Flag
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^^ Apparently not so organized about UB posts! ;) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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Crazy bad organized. I found $300 under a pile of papers. Stacks of papers, it’s a mess. I’m a mess. I own a 6 apartment building and I didn’t pay the light bill for months so all the electricity was shut off. It is so frustrating. In fact, I should be organizing now but instead, I’m dicking around on UB. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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pretty much 95% disorganized. But I am an entrepreneur who has built a highly successful company and my assistants at work keep that together. Home life is a mess. The password lists are the worst part of my life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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I'm too organized. Plan everything and get really freaked out when plans go awry. Even stupid stuff like what I'm doing the next day -- god forbid someone ask me to lunch for the same day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Do parents react specifically to their kids starting to look old? Like when your child reaches late 30s and doesn't look like a spring chicken anymore, is it sad? Or do you not really care? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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I can't imagine caring [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:24 AM Flag
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my mom cares. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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In what way?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:04 AM Flag
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she looks wistful and points out my crows feet. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:49 AM Flag
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My parents have hidden their shock and horror over my aging quite well. I'm 46 and since they are 19 years older, it must be strange on some level. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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Yeah. Must be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:14 AM Flag
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my son and daughter-in-law have a few gray hairs... it's a shocker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:48 AM Flag
[ - ] What is holding you back in life? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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Anxiety [ Reply | More ]
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Exhaustion [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:20 AM Flag
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Nothing, I’m doing great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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Illness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:35 AM Flag
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Alcohol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:43 AM Flag
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about 8 pounds of weight, which I will dump shortly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:47 AM Flag
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Procrastination [ Reply | More ]
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Fear [ Reply | More ]
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Nothing :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:05 AM Flag
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DH [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:10 AM Flag
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The past. [ Reply | More ]
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art [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 05:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone been to or hosted a party at the Stone Park Cafe event space (Park Slope)? How was it? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:09 AM Flag
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Acura MDX, Subaru Outback [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:13 AM Flag
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Oops. Meant for post below [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:15 AM Flag
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Yummy short ribs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:29 AM Flag
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No, but I love the food. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
[ - ] What do you and DH drive 79 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:03 AM Flag
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Me: Tesla Model S Him: Audi A4 [ Reply | More ]
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Tesla and Bugatti [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:05 AM Flag
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DH Tesla Model S and Me soon to be Tesla Model X (thanks for helping me choose a colour!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:06 AM Flag
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In the city BMW X5, In the hamptons 80's mercedes convertible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:06 AM Flag
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Why do you need a car that big? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:11 AM Flag
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UhMMMMMM.......Kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:12 AM Flag
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How large are your kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:12 AM Flag
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Its an SUV not a Winnebago FFS. I have 2 kids and a dog. The Range Rover is bigger than my car [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:14 AM Flag
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Both are asshole PLANER KILLER cars. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:15 AM Flag
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Omfg [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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Listen you dumbass. Look it up a cat or dog has the same carbon imprint as my SUV. So suck on that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:17 AM Flag
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There is a very pleasant group of ladies on Urban Baby today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:05 AM Flag
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this. Coarse strivers with pricey cars fool no one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:43 AM Flag
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Subaru Forester and Outback [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:07 AM Flag
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Lesbian? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:09 AM Flag
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No, I live somewhere where it snows and where we drive on steep slopes. Subaru is the most common kind of car on the road. PS, it's not 1998. Subaru isn't a lesbian car anymore. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:11 AM Flag
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Sure. Are you heading out now to the Indigo Girls concert? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:12 AM Flag
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With my pager. Seriously, some shot has changed in 20 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:18 AM Flag
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Don’t you think this stereotype is a little tired? Or are you looking for a date? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:37 AM Flag
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+++ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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+4 Fucking moron poster. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:39 AM Flag
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Seriously this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:07 AM Flag
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How are there 4 tesla owners on here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:07 AM Flag
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Its becoming a popular car [ Reply | More ]
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They're lying. [ Reply | More ]
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:14 AM Flag
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there are SO MANY in my town (CT) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:21 AM Flag
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Sheep car of the moment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:17 AM Flag
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This [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:41 AM Flag
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No cars. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:11 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:16 AM Flag
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Op tesla people- what are the downsides of it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:11 AM Flag
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long trips in rural areas have to be carefully planned so you can re-charge conveniently. but that's about all... the rest is bliss! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:12 AM Flag
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the system (hope you're auto updating) plans that out for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:18 AM Flag
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sure, but you still have to think about it instead of just popping into the next gas station. rural areas are sparsely populated with superchargers. [ Reply | More ]
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None. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:12 AM Flag
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Reliability has been bad. In the shop a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:18 AM Flag
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I posted below about the X. The downsides are: I live in a climate with winter and it's obvious this car was designed in a climate that doesn't have winter. There's no engine per se so there's no hot air blowing to keep you warm, enter heated seats. Also with no hot engine, snow accumulates on the hood, whereas in a normal car, it melts. [ Reply | More ]
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Also batteries don't like cold. Notice how long your iphone lasts in cold? My iphone lasts 40 minutes. The Tesla is longer but still it shortens the range, and we don't park it overnight at say the airport and go on a trip and expect to drive home. (We take a taxi, driver, or use a gas car.) [ Reply | More ]
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Also, my family is huge, like 6'5" and up. It's fine in the front, but not the back. Broad shoulders and long legs don't help, BUT there aren't many alternatives. About the only car they're comfortable in is a suburban and no thanks! [ Reply | More ]
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And this is just my personal grievance, but I hate hatchbacks. They're all hatchbacks. Having a frunk is nice. I prefer the older versions per HEPA filter which had 2 or 3 times more cargo space than the new models. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:21 AM Flag
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Can I rave about the pros? If you wanted to, you could have a vehicle with 8.3 inches of clearance. Which is great for snow, off roading, rural areas... [ Reply | More ]
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I used the big screen with WiFi helped my real estate biz. E sign papers. Look at a floor plan. Etc. Now it entertains kids: draw, surf, music, etc. [ Reply | More ]
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Also the auto sync with my calendar means the car starts going to where my next appointment is. I don't need to type in an address. [ Reply | More ]
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Suburu Crosstrek [ Reply | More ]
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+1, and we have an ancient Jeep. [ Reply | More ]
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Honda CR V - Honda Accord [ Reply | More ]
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Honda Civic, Honda CR-V. [ Reply | More ]
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Divorced. 10 year old BMW x3 [ Reply | More ]
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each other crazy [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
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BMW 750 and he drives Ford Explorer [ Reply | More ]
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Acura MDX; Subaru Outback [ Reply | More ]
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X5 and a Navigator [ Reply | More ]
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Volvo XC60, Lexus LX570 [ Reply | More ]
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Infiniti & Jeep Grand Cherokee [ Reply | More ]
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Land Rover LR3; Nissan Pathfinder [ Reply | More ]
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Me: newer Mercedes Wagon. Him:older Mercedes wagon. [ Reply | More ]
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Love those! [ Reply | More ]
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Volvo XC70 / Toyota Land Cruiser [ Reply | More ]
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each other crazy...bada boom! [ Reply | More ]
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a day late and a dollar short. [ Reply | More ]
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damn! lol (actually we drive an Odyssey) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:52 AM Flag
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X5 in the city and BMW 4 series convertible in the Hamptons. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 01:49 AM Flag
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Him: Subaru. Me: A wedge between him and MIL [ Reply | More ]
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Pilot and MDX [ Reply | More ]
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Is the same person responding over and over? This is URBAN baby, not suburban baby. Why would I want a car in the city? yuck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:16 AM Flag
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Why not? Don't you drive upstate or out East? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:18 AM Flag
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I don't drive at all. Why would I? There is no need to drive in this day and age when there is Uber and Lyft on demand that arrives in minutes. If I am going somewhere far away I take a plane and then use ubers to get around in whatever city I am in. What is the usefulness of driving in this day and age and having to worry about parking and car insurance and other cars hitting you and you hitting other cars and getting your registration updated and plates updated and then figuring out where and how to store your car for the 99% of the time it sits there not being used? what a waste. why would anyone who lives in a city do that? Plus 30 thousand people a year die in car crashes so it's dangerous on top of the inconvenience. I would never think of driving or owning a car. Pretty much all my peers my age are in the same boat. We are early thirties. Cars are for grandmas afraid of change you don't own a smartphone and can't figure out how to order an uber. [ Reply | More ]
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I don't think it would be cost effective to take uber to my beach house. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:24 AM Flag
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Np-ha, ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:25 AM Flag
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I doubt you have a very nice beach house if you haven't even heard of Uber helicopter. Typical striver. We helicopter out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 05:27 AM Flag
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I drive in the city 5-6 days a week. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:00 AM Flag
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2008 Prius [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:25 AM Flag
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Rental cars when we want to get out of the city [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 02:50 AM Flag
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Share a Honda Oddysey, motorcycle(Yamaha SR400) and a Vespa and my husband drives a boat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:01 AM Flag
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Subaru Outback parked in the city for ski trips and a classic Land Rover on the Vineyard. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 03:09 AM Flag
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Subaru Impreza in the city, Large SUV in the country, but I want to get rid of both and go back to renting. Such a waste of money to park in Manhattan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 04:43 AM Flag
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Tesla and Tesla [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 12.11.17, 05:28 AM Flag
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