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[ - ] i've seen others tell this in the past -- now it's actually my turn, to my surprise: had anal the other night. was amazing and not painful (though we totally eased into it). wow. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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dh would like to do this, and i'm open to the idea, esp now that scar tissue post-partum has made regular old sex painful, but he's so big! it worries me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:13 PM Flag
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we'll, we've had a dismal sex life for close to three years because my libido is so low after having dc and still nursing a couple of times a day. when we do it, it's great, but i have a hard time getting into it. this time, i had already come several times, and so i was really relaxed, and i actually asked him to do it. my advice is to use lots of lube, go very slowly, and, if you can, have lots of foreplay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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Nassssty [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:31 PM Flag
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I herd that doing anal regularly helps with bowel movements. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:35 PM Flag
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I'm betting a guy told you this. LOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:37 PM Flag
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A gay man told me this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:42 PM Flag
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ok, a guy who wants to stick his dick in someone's ass told you this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:43 PM Flag
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No, someone who has had a dick stuck up in him for a while now. From experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:44 PM Flag
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'wow' indeed. i am you. it has really helped spice things up. while not a frequent thing, it's our secret weapon when things get boring. both work up to it really slowly and love it, usually it seems to kick start a really hot phase in our marriage that can last weeks/months! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:36 PM Flag
[ - ] early pg. signs: anyone's cm increase post-conception/ovulation? only 5 dpo so probably not related, right? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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mine did and i'm 6 dpo today. wondering same... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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oooo! good luck! i hope we are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:19 PM Flag
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me too! keep us posted [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Prek debacle is making me want to finally pack it up and move family out of NY (I've toyed with idea before, I think this may be last straw). Where should we go. Love Park Slope. small, artsy, pretty, liberal towns, great/innovative schools ala brooklyn New School most important on the agenda, not pricey-we're tired of feeling like the poor neighbors. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:08 PM Flag
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Hastings on Hudson - house might be too $$ but co-ops, condo might work for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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I grew up in H-O-H :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.09.08, 10:11 PM Flag
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I went to college in Providence and loved it there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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Prov is AWESOME. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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same here. I'd love to move back now that I have a family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:14 PM Flag
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we moved somewhere completely off the radar. nice, pretty houses. people are laid back, kids are nice and normal, it's such a pleasure. i called a local private school and was prepared for all sorts of jumping through hoops (i kept reading the posts here) and it was just "sure, fill out the form. ok. school starts in september. we'll see you then. there are nice towns out there. just keep looking till you find what you want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:13 PM Flag
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why not a public school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:27 PM Flag
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we wanted something more parochial. we could've done public and then separate schooling but we ended up finding something we liked that combined everything. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:30 PM Flag
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Maplewood, NJ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:26 AM Flag
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np: Schools are not innovative. OP's list is a tough one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:36 AM Flag
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np: maplewood and south orange have a magnet school which might fit the bill (seth boyden). if not there's a great coop school in montclair. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:38 AM Flag
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Didn't know about the coop in Montclair, but friends have been complaining it's really hard to get into the magnet school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:39 AM Flag
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so you want out of nyc because you didnt get you kid into free pre-k. AFAIK, in the past, people had to camp overnight on line to guarantee prek registration in parkslope. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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uh, no-not the point really. We didn't expect to get in for prek, but the way the DOE handled it-not following it's own criteria, etc. It makes me scared for the process next year and then middle school, high schools. Not sure I want that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 07:32 PM Flag
[ - ] names in a media list I'm looking at that seem cool - 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:06 PM Flag
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What does this mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:16 PM Flag
[ - ] work at home moms - what is your best staying focused tip? I have so much to do - then get sidetracked with laundry or something house related or a snack! How do I keep at it for long stretches at time? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:02 PM Flag
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leave tv off. do your chores before and after work. Go out for a walk at lunch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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agree. also, always always be dressed and at your desk by 8 or 9. It helps me too to get out and get coffee before working [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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op - I usually go to gym in am - back by 9:30 - would it be better to take a break at lunchtime and go then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:07 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone have experience with trisomy 18? my good friend's baby (fetus?) was just diagnosed. i don't know what to say to her. ihaven't spoken to her, only heard through her mom (family friend). i'm so sad for her. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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i don't. how sad for your friend... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:59 PM Flag
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yes. i can't imagine... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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Me. My 2nd pg ended in mc at 8 wks. Genetic testing showed Trisomy 18. It rarely survives to birth. if it does, I don;t think the baby survives very long. Severe issues. Sorry for your friend. How many wks is she? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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22. maybe 23 already. i don't know what they plan on doing. it's such a horrible thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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How did she find out? Amnio? Yeah, that woudl be very hard. No real choice though. Odds are, it won't even make it to term anyways. What did her ob say? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:07 PM Flag
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i don't know what her doctor is telling her. i'm not sure if it was an amnio. i think they saw something odd on the the ultrasound and then did an amnio. but again, i'm not really sure. i'm hearing everything through her mother (and some through my mother that got it through her mother) so most of it is pretty vague. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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hopefully the child will just die in utero. i think an abortion that late term will be grueling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:11 PM Flag
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what a nightmare. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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oh dear, so sorry. trisomy 18 (I think it's called Edwards Syndrome) has a more severe retardation associated with it than trisomy21 (Downs). Many fetuses don't survive to birth. So sorry for your friend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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i shouldn't do or say or send anything, right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:08 PM Flag
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I guess I'd wait to see if she's going to terminate or what. But IMHO you can always send a card that just says "thinking of you" . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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tell her you're there for her and ask if you can do anything. Keep in touch and make sure she has someone to talk to. But I wouldn't send anything until you know what's going to happen. You wouldn't want to be sending condolences when there is still a live baby involved. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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ita [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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thank you (and the OR above you). i guess i'll call or send a card. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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does anyone know of someone terminating a baby with trisomy 18 and then going on to having a healthy baby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:06 PM Flag
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or from above. Of course people do -- this is a chromosomal defect, not og genetic origin and has nothing to do with future pregnancy,. It's a random even like most miscarriages.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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yes, my friend has two beautiful healthy dds after losing her son to trisomy 18. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:11 PM Flag
[ - ] name poll - Seth 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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you know, it's kind of cool in an old-school kind of way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:59 PM Flag
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Suburban and Jewish. Cute, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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was planning on using it but then baby was a girl... i love it! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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Great! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:36 AM Flag
[ - ] repost for a bit more feedback: i am seeing someone who is so hot and cold. one day he loves me all day every day, but then the next day he is overwhelmed with work and doesn't really want to talk to me. its a pretty annoying roller coaster. what do i do? anyone have a dh like this? we have been togther a couple of months. i guess it is who he is 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 06.02.08, 07:57 PM Flag
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dump him - if he's such a pita when dating, only worse when married [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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so true... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:03 PM Flag
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i agree. but i'm wondering how needy the op is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:17 PM Flag
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that's not normal. dump him before you get too attached or it goes any further. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 12:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you ever have one of those nights where the house is a DISASTER, dishes are piled up, laundry is spilling over, the kids won't go to sleep and you feel like a loser/failure about the whole thing? I'm there. Right now. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:57 PM Flag
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Every Monday - recovering from the weekend when everyone destroys the house [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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OP - Yes! Mondays! They suck, right??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:08 PM Flag
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pour yourself some tea, grab some cookies, turn on tv, tun off the light [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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tea? try for wine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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OP-ha. so funny you wrote that, because when I read tea, I picked up the LARGE glass on wine I have here next to me and thought, tea, wine, sam difference... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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tomorrow is another day. spend 5 min picking up the kitchen and go to bed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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one night? i'd count myself lucky if that was the case :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:02 PM Flag
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oh yeah. all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:02 PM Flag
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Thank you everyone. It really does help to know I'm not the only one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:11 PM Flag
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I don't really sweat the housework, so that's never much of a stressor for me. Kids not sleeping I can completely relate to, though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:15 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm ODing on multigrain chips & Mad About You reruns 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:56 PM Flag
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mad about you is on? used to love that... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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show after show on TV Land but now Mash is on [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Is Amherst mom on? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:56 PM Flag
[ - ] sorry, repost: miscarried 2 weeks ago, at 6 weeks. ob confirmed with sonogram and said it was resolving on its own. now i'm very nauseated and have instant postitive on preg. test. so, does that mean i probably need d&c? or maybe pregnant? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:56 PM Flag
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probably hormones. If there was no heartbeat, there is no pg. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:57 PM Flag
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have you had your period yet? you might be ovulating or pms'ing and the rush of hormones is making you feel nauseous. i don't think it's unusual to get a positive pregnancy test after a miscarriage. but call your ob in the morning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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How did you know you miscarried? Were you bleeding? Was your cervix open? Do you know what ob saw on sono? Six weeks wouldn't reliably show a heartbeat even for a healthy fetus. I wouldn't read too much into the nausea, but of course tell your ob (soon) that you still have a positive pregnancy test. They may want to track the blood levels of the beta HCG hormone that the pregnancy test measures, to be sure that it is decreasing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:21 PM Flag
[ - ] does anybody know how long will DOE give us before the deadline of the registration for G& T K? I will be on vacation in July. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 06.02.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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should have waited until august. we did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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Wow, so helpful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:06 PM Flag
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did you do it last year? DOE give long time for registration? thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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I don't think we will have much time at all. Less than two weeks is my guess. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 04:51 AM Flag
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I am guessing they will give us about 10 days ... maybe 2 weeks at most. I bet the deadline will be late June, not in July. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:30 AM Flag
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only 2 weeks for registration??/ do not scare me. thanks. I am not in New york in July. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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"only" two weeks? the presumption is that you don't need more time than that to make up your mind. that you vacation outside of the city for the entire month of july is not the DOE's problem. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 07:36 AM Flag
[ - ] My friend insists all of us have terrible candida infections and should drink vegetable juices only to get rid of it. Is there possibly any truth in this? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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well if you have a lot of sinus problems, there may be some truth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:56 PM Flag
[ - ] what are you getting your dc's teachers for an end of year gift? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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not sure yet -- probably gift cards [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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for what? when is school out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone ordered furniture from a NC furniture site? If so, which one? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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have not, but I drool over stuff on clubfurniture.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:48 PM Flag
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furnitureland south [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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one friend ordered from rose, which is out of business now, and two others ordered from boyles, which has great stuff. but be careful -- my friend got stuck with a tax bill THREE years after she had her furniture delivered... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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tax bill? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:56 PM Flag
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yes -- they don't charge tax but eventually, the tax man catches up with you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:01 PM Flag
[ - ] how many people are on? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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me, one [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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Not fucking enough. [ Reply | More ]
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5. [ Reply | More ]
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