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[ - ] 3.5yo recently evaluated will be suggested OT and seit... issues right now seem to be sensory and lack of behavior regulation(hope this makes sense) over the past 2days he's been circling his hands and bending his fingers almost continually unless directly involved with an activity, is this ever normal or might be a sign of something even more going on with ds? Thanks 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Special Needs 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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does he have language? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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He actually tested well in speech and language 4.5-5.5yo level. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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that's good - if you are really concerned I would seek advice from a developmental ped. gl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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^^If this is a big concern for you I would make an appointment with a Developmental Ped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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Should it be a big concern for me? Thanks... new to all of this [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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I can't say but trust your get - there is no harm in getting in checked out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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^^gut [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:55 AM Flag
[ - ] I would like my dd to play violin. How early can she start and do you have any recommendations in new york city of schools/teachers? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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We really like the Lucy Moses School (affiliated with the Kaufman Center on 67th/Bdway). My dd started when she was 4yo. They will evaluate your child to see if she is ready. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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np: how do they evaluate? My ds is scheduled to be evaluated there in July. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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I've heard great things about Lucy Moses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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I started playing when I was 8, a lot of my peers started earlier with suzuki methods -- 4 or 5. Thing was, they sort of learned to play before they learned to read music and I think it threw them off. Although technically, they were way ahead of me. I plan on starting dd at 5 I think. But non-suzuki. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 09:01 AM Flag
[ - ] I cheated on my DH twice with this cute guy who used to work in my office, one time the condom broke and now I'm pregnant and I am not sure who is the father. (I had sex with DH around that time, so it could be DH's baby.) What do I do now? I don't want to tell DH I had an affair. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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call Maury! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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fake. or, if it's not fake, this really isn't the forum for you. go somewhere else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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I get all my good advice here! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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like the advice you got to sleep with the cute guy in your office? quality stuff! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 08:02 AM Flag
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Are they the same race? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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you need to have the guy from work get tested along with you. See if he's the father. If it's your husband's, no need to hurt him with these details. But is the affair still going on? Do you want to be with this guy? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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np: ita. there are mail in paternity tests available in the drug store now. you can't do it until after the baby comes, but once it does, I would do this asap, then figure out where to go from there depending on the results. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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What if it's the other guy's baby? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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I saw this on a Law & Order SVU once. There is a test called CVS that can be done at 12 weeks. It will tell you the identity of the dad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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cvs is an incredibly invasive test. You can do a cheek swab after the baby is born unless you plan to abort, then you will have to do amnio or cvs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 08:02 AM Flag
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The affair is over, we literally had sex only twice. I don't want to be with him. I ended up sleeping with him because I was upset with DH because he was being more distant with me, etc and wrapped up in his work and the other guy filled a need in my life at that moment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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how very mature [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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The other guy filled a need I needed filled at that time and it was magical and wonderful and fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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Ok, now I realize this is fake! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:59 AM Flag
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This is definitely fake -- this exact post was on the old UB a few months back. I'm clearly spending too much time here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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If you're going to post a fake story at least make it interesting and somewhat realistic sounding. *yawn* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 08:01 AM Flag
[ - ] Speaking of ERB's, I don't see how coding cannot be counted as it is part of overall score. Comments? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 06.06.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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everything is counted. I don't know where this rumor came from. talking about which particular subtests are considered more/less impressive is crazy talk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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it counts, but since most kids dont do great on that section i think they give let weight to it if your child does do well on it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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what is coding? Can you give a example. My son will be taking the ERB's soon. Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 06:55 PM Flag
[ - ] what does fdls stand for? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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you mean FLDS? fundamentalist latter day saints, the group in the Texas compound, broke off from mainstream LDS over polygamy issue. Groups are in Utah, Colorado, Texas and Canada. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:46 AM Flag
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thanks, that must've been what it was. someone last night flamed me using that acronym and i had no idea what she was talking about. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone at D3 lottery last night - what is the date you need to confirm acceptance of your slot? Curious how that will match up with G&T letters being sent? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 06.06.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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MSC gave us until June 13. Not sure about schools within D3 lottery. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:42 AM Flag
[ - ] How did you do with your first BJ? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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i was told to slow down [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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How fast were you going? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking for a sling for newborn that won't let me put him down, i have tried a few that he seems to get lost in. Any recs for one that i can see his face in, that holds him real close and doesn't seem so hot? tia 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 06.06.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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this is the prob w/ all the slings, imo - never found a very good one - have you googled? I know there are sites out there devoted to sling wear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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loved my Maya wrap. Very breatheable fabric. Did watch the dvd to get the hang of using it, but totally worth it, imo. db slept in there for hours at a wedding once. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking for a sling for newborn that won't let me put him down. I've tried a few that he seems to get lost in. Any recs for one that holds him real close and that i can see his face when he's in it? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Newborn 06.06.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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I just got the My Baby Nest and 4wo likes it a lot. You have to peek in though to see the face. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 10:35 AM Flag
[ - ] Do you take your DC to pediatric dentist or your adult dentist? Does anyone know anything about Dr. Michael King? His pediatrician gave us his name. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 06.06.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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Don't know Dr. King. I take ds to a pediatric dentist, although if the insurance didn't cover it, I would probably take him to my dentist, since ped dentist charges a lot more [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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pediatric dentist--but most of them will not take insurance which means you pay out of pocket and then get reimbursment by insurance Co [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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pediatric - it's a specialty, imo. Though I suppose certain adult dentists would be good at it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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we just go to our adult dentist [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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We just go to our dentist and it is great. They give DC a "ride" onthe chair, have kid flavored polishing paste, give the the sunglasses to wear, and prizes at the end and costs so much less than the pediatric types. One of my kids even has spec needs and does fine with my dentist/hygenist, but they are all great in the office. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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I know dr. king. He is a nice man with great "bedside manner" for children. He is rather lax. My child had cavaties and he had a wait and see approach (baby teeth). I went to another ped dentist who flipped out and filled them. Now, new study says the mercury is harmful to my child. Its so hard to make these decisions [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 08:04 AM Flag
[ - ] So my dh; that cannot hold a job since db was born, because he doesnt want to.Parties behind my back when he does have cash. Makes himself seem like a victim in front of his parents,getting evicted cause the landlady cant stand his behaviour and tons of bad things..has told me to shut up crackhead and meant it, i dont do drugs and i seem tired because im doing all the work at home.. im so broken on the inside and feel these were the break up words to our short lived marriage..flame away or advice on btdt? 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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how old is db? how long have you been married? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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db is is going to be 11 months , and married before she came into the world [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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1 day before? 1 year before? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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2 months before , we have known each other for 10 years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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dated for 10 years or friends? when did your relationship become romantic? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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well we were friends first and then became lovers a year later , he moved in with me and made my life hell cheated etc etc , 3years later i broke it off and in 2005 we found each other again and began dating , alot better second time around, alot happier, but still the problems underneath it all and then pg in 2006 ... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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this is exactly how UB is now broken. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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which part? posting to every board? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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yes and the lack of coherent sentence structure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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if you dont like it read another well grammered post - hag. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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exactly what I mean. The troglodites used to be confined to toddler. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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***boring*** but yet your using all your 2cent words on someone who could care less for your education lesson [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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Whay did you mayy him ? What are his good qualities? has he always been like this or is this new behavior? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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well he was shitty person before and when got back together he seemed to clean up his act , when i found out i was pg he had a job and things were going smoothly, until she was born then everything went sour. hes one of those mama's boys and still is. im hurt cause i feel like this guy has no respect for me. i guess im closuring the relationship here to be stronger for myself and my beautiful db. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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Board whore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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you must be bored [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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Leave him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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Sorry you're going through a tough time, but it really does sound as if you should leave him. Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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i really want to becuase i think he has no idea how hard it is to work and pay for evrything on his own,(hes never lived by himself) and since hes sitting back and reaping all of my rewards without any regrets. what hurts mostly is that he meant it, i mhight look worn out becasue i have no money to do anything other than work , eat, sleep in a home and take care of both of them. i feel soo stupid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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np: He sounds like a loser and you are only stupid if you stay with him and let him drag you and db down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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op: i agree , im soo depressed to realize my marriage is over and my poor db that loves her father will have to be totally alone with me now. why is life soo hard? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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Both you and db will be better off in the long run. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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i think im scared cause i have no family at all.i never wanted to have a baby and do it all on my own [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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you never wanted it, but you went out and picked a loser and had a baby with him. I am not flaming, just telling you to look at how you did exactly what you say you didn't want to do. you must look at that, and try to figure out why. this will help you from repeating this over and over again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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GET SOME THERAPY AND AL-ANON, WOMAN! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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for some reason therapy does nothing but bring me more into depression, and his drug problems doesnt bother anymore , i think i have to leave this man, thank you for your advice though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:48 AM Flag
[ - ] UB: your site is messed up. whenever I try to reply to a post, it takes me back to log in. I'm already logged in! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Site Feedback 06.06.08, 07:20 AM Flag
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I think I have figured this out. It's a really long thread, right? Is it the Florida panhandle thread? That happened to me last night on another thread. They must have a character or lenght limit or something. Obviously they need to fix this.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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no, it was the post saying UB killed something very special [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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oh. odd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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They don't like criticism. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 04:15 PM Flag
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hmm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 10:49 AM Flag
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looks like it's working again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 04:13 PM Flag
[ - ] My 8 week old didn't poop at all yesterday and hasn't pooped yet today. He used to go at every feeding. Should I be concerned? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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you need to tell us whether he eats formula or breast milk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:28 AM Flag
[ - ] UB...your site is messed up! When ever I hit reply, it takes me back to sign in 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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happened to me last night. don't know why it's working for me now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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np: I replied above as well. I think this happens when the threads get really long. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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I couldn't even respond to posts w/ no replies. it's a bug that UB needs to iron out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:29 AM Flag
[ - ] help! 3yo dd refuses to use the potty - says she's scared (of what specifically, i don't know). will sit on potty and the big toilet but won't actually pee. at my wits' end. help! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:17 AM Flag
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I suppose you've already tried the M&M thing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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This must be a phase, as my fully potty trained 3yrold ds says the same thing, "I don't like poopies," or "I'm afraid of poopies on the toilet." He did this for a week or two... but it went away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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