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[ - ] For illegal aliens ejected from a car in re as while being chased by border patrol 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:48 PM Flag
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English please. [ Reply | More ]
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lolz [ Reply | More ]
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FOUR****** [ Reply | More ]
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TEXAS***** [ Reply | More ]
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Too late. Fuck off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:58 PM Flag
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Your husband is on Ashley Madison. [ Reply | More ]
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Hi Russian troll! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:03 PM Flag
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Your husband loves my lasered bald pussy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:20 PM Flag
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These sort of tragedies occur all the time along the border. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 11:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Camp moms - please help - I am going bonkers putting labels on dc's clothes. Do i need to label underwear? socks? Please say no. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:42 PM Flag
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100% [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:46 PM Flag
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Those are the items most likely to get misplaced, so yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:47 PM Flag
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I used laundry marking pen. Like a black marker but doesn't wash out. Highly recommend. Put on everything --underwear, socks, shoes, sports equipment, googles, toiletries, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:15 PM Flag
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^^ goggles [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:16 PM Flag
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Sharpee Marker works fine and doesn't wash out. On everything! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:24 PM Flag
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Get two mesh laundry bags, instruct DC to put socks into them, just out name on the bag. There is one online at Everything Summer Camp or one of those places that is big enough for a dozen pairs of socks and has a fabric panel for the name (rest is mesh). I did lable underpants though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 10:32 PM Flag
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yes, that's what they tell you to label. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 11:04 PM Flag
[ - ] DH and I have the opportunity to go to Italy for two weeks (without kids). Would love recommendations of cities to visit, restaurants to eat at and sights to see. Neither of us have been to Italy before: 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:40 PM Flag
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OP- would love hotel recommendations as well! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:41 PM Flag
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Milan. Rome. Naples. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:42 PM Flag
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Tuscana!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:43 PM Flag
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Go to Eataly World [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:49 PM Flag
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Venice. Ravenna. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:23 PM Flag
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Sicily [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:32 PM Flag
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First trip you need to hit the big 3: Venice, Florence and Rome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:44 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 10:04 PM Flag
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What time of year? Southern Italy is really, really hot in the summer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:48 PM Flag
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Just mix the countryside with whatever city and dont go to Milan unless fashion shopping is you. The cities are cesspools in Italy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:58 PM Flag
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I think the must sees are Venice, Florence, Rome, and the Amalfi Coast. Tripadvisor is good for hotel advice and restaurants over there; I have my favorites from when I was there but I'm not sure if they are still good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.18.18, 02:41 AM Flag
[ - ] I am leaving my wife for another woman and want to do it in a way that causes the least amount of damage to her and our 7yo DD. I have spoken to a lawyer, should I consult a therapist or psychologist for this process? She has a history of alcohol abuse and my primary concern is that she will start drinking again. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:27 PM Flag
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how long has she been sober? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:29 PM Flag
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Since Spring 2016. She still drinks, but not excessively like she used to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:31 PM Flag
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NP...so, she's NOT sober [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:32 PM Flag
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This is sober for her, she drinks a normal amount. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:34 PM Flag
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^^She went through significant outpatient treatment, which she rejected. Kind of got her shit together on her own and then went to a therapist and worked out some broader issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:33 PM Flag
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Fake but whatever [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:31 PM Flag
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you are a bastard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:31 PM Flag
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That's not relevant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:31 PM Flag
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Yes it is. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:32 PM Flag
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This is a fake post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:37 PM Flag
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You are disgusting. That said, there are therapists that work with couples on dissolution. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:31 PM Flag
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she will indeed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:32 PM Flag
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And your DD will suffer and blame you for ruining the family [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:33 PM Flag
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She probably will. Oh well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:36 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:33 PM Flag
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Ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:37 PM Flag
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Fake. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:37 PM Flag
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Can you leave and not go to the other woman? If she is so amazing, she can wait a year. Leave, be by yourself and be fair to your wife. If it's true love, OW will still be there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:37 PM Flag
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This. But not how men operate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:42 PM Flag
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Yep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:58 PM Flag
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Make sure she has a good therapist before you leave. Do not fight her in the divorce process. Tell her you will agree to any custody schedule she wants. Agree to not have your dd around the ow for a minimum of one year. And make sure she has plenty of money to keep her lifestyle the same and maybe even take some time off work. Do not stay in contact with any mutual friends or her relatives. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:46 PM Flag
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He’s not going to do any of this. Too self centered [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:11 PM Flag
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The OW decided she prefers your dw over you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:50 PM Flag
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This is so fake. No man would say, "I'm leaving my wife for another woman." Really, you can't do better than this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:52 PM Flag
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Totally fake. It’s a woman posting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:11 PM Flag
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You mean so your daughter doesn't have daddy issues and act out and be promiscuous with older men because you left her? Good luck with that! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:02 PM Flag
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Interesting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Why is Bill de Blasio such an Asian-hating racist 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:21 PM Flag
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he does not hate asians. he is trying to open a discussion about asian iq [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:24 PM Flag
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A discussion about their high iqs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:25 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:36 PM Flag
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Change is a difficult thing for those who are used to robotic learning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:50 PM Flag
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Yes like all those white kids who automatically get 1600 on the SAT by taking Kaplan. Not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:52 PM Flag
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No idea what you're talking about. My kids play soccer on the weekends. Not cram school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:47 PM Flag
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So does my asian kid. Way to miss the point. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 11:33 PM Flag
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try robotic learning on dumb kids - no amount of cramming will help them break 1100. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:54 PM Flag
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RM on full swinging mode! you don't rest, do you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:54 PM Flag
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clearly no amount of educating will help you break 80 on the IQ test :) sucks to be poor AND stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:56 PM Flag
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Why do Asians hate other minorities so much? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:52 PM Flag
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Mirror. now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 11:34 PM Flag
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Because they cheat/milk the system and don't deserve the welfare they are getting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:00 PM Flag
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Right. Only blacks do! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:03 PM Flag
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This. de blasio son got in to ivy thru racial quota [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:06 PM Flag
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And just watch, he will be a jobless loser with a degree from Yale [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:15 PM Flag
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now you know that's not true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Thinking of going to either San Miguel de Allende (mexico) or antigua guatemala.. anyone know them both and could say if one is way better than the other? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:20 PM Flag
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You will get murdered in Mexico [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:24 PM Flag
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If you go to San Miguel, please also visit Ciudad de Guanajato. It is a beautiful place! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:27 PM Flag
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I have only been to San Miguel de Allende. My Aunt lives in Mexico City and we did a road trip through Mexico years ago. It was full of Americans then and from what I understand, there are even more Americans there now. It's cute, but there are many nicer places to visit that don't feel like San Diego South. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:29 PM Flag
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The volcano near Antigua just erupted. Check all is ok first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:12 PM Flag
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San Miguel is truly amazing, unlike any other area of Mexico I have ever visited. We rented a car and got a great feel of the surrounding cities, loved the food, art, baths. We stayed in an incredible mansion and had. cook, so that may have swayed my memory a bit. The town itself is full of expats, art and money (hence the delicious, safe, food), but most of the expats are not American. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:28 PM Flag
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San Miguel is pretty but like Disney world not really Mexico - the whole town is pretty and full of expats and retired Americans very safe- we go to Mexico City twice a year and live it, in fifteen years I have never had a problem- great food museums etc. last year I went to Antigua it was amazing- Guatemala is incredible, go to Chichicastegnango- center for the Mayans - you will not see anything like that in San Miguel- the last time I was there I saw two people I know from Nyc! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 10:50 PM Flag
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I live in Mexico City, and have been to both. San Miguel was nice, but as other people have posted, its very touristy with tons of Americans. Antigua is a great city, with some interesting things to go around the city as well. I don't know how anything has been affected by the volcano however. I think it depends on how much time you have. If you have more time, you could spend a day or two in Mexico City, which is a great city, and then see San Miguel and Guanajuato which is about an hour from San Miguel. I recently visited Oaxaca city, and like it better than both Antigua and San Miguel, it was really great. Great sights, great food, ruins nearby, etc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 11:18 PM Flag
[ - ] SIL is flying to her college town to do a gender reveal party - it's 5 hours from NYC. She had one in her current town today, but swore her guests to secrecy, so that her gender reveal party part II is a surprise this weekend. MIL called us today to berate DH for not attending this weekend. wtf. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:15 PM Flag
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NOKD. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:18 PM Flag
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op. ITA. I'm from a culture that doesn't even do baby showers, so gender reveals are even more odd to me. Just seems like a gift grab and a major waste of time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:39 PM Flag
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5 hrs from NYC is like a plane trip not a drive [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:23 PM Flag
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Yes, which is why MIL asked us to attend the gender reveal in D.C. this weekend, and we were like, "no." And, so now she's complaining that our only other option is to attend the one that's 5hrs from here, and DH still said no, so now MIL is angry again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:38 PM Flag
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What are you upset about? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:23 PM Flag
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Jealous of course [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:29 PM Flag
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I'm not jealous, thanks. I am just annoyed that on Father's Day, MIL finds it necessary to make it all about SIL once again. She just can't let DH be. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:36 PM Flag
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Is DH annoyed? Or just you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:15 PM Flag
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so dumb on so many levels [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:51 PM Flag
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Is she 23? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:06 PM Flag
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Two gender reveal parties? Jesus wept. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:14 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone read drugs and the third Reich? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:03 PM Flag
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I think my husband did...they were on coke & meth, right? [ Reply | More ]
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I’m wondering if it is a good read. [ Reply | More ]
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yes apparently [ Reply | More ]
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DJT was 100% coked up during that debate where we was doing all the sniffing [ Reply | More ]
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How does this have anything to do with question? Unless...oh wait, you are comparing Trump to a Nazi. Please stop. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:18 PM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
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meth and coke make people PSYCHOTIC and DJT is clearly DELUSIONAL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:19 PM Flag
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MAGA! And get over yourself. He is doing a great job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:43 PM Flag
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lots of similarities if you have studies history [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:08 PM Flag
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He’s been on speed for 30 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:43 PM Flag
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Trump doesnt do drugs or drink. Try again. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:51 PM Flag
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This! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:18 PM Flag
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Yeah, it was decent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:14 PM Flag
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No, interesting. Although alcohol is the most common drug. Many of our founding fathers were drunks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:43 PM Flag
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You'd think he wouldn't be such a fat piece of shit if he's jacked up on amphetamines [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:47 PM Flag
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You seem nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:25 PM Flag
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HM - yes, fairly quick read but very interesting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.18.18, 12:20 PM Flag
[ - ] The Swiss goalie is HOT. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:01 PM Flag
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Which one? Yann? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:12 PM Flag
[ - ] In the 1970's, upper class parents paid 500,000 pounds to put their daughter through the 10-month débutante season where she would find a suitable mate. Far superior to today's mating game. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:00 PM Flag
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what a great little video! where did you find this? TY. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:32 PM Flag
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How many times are you going to post this? [ Reply | More ]
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It paid off, I suppose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:10 PM Flag
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Who cares? [ Reply | More ]
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Thank god this is not a whole video on the topic. I am sitting her planning a trip to England and would have gotten sucked RIGHT IN. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:21 PM Flag
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Is that now your momma? Apparently she was low in the smarts department. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:45 PM Flag
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BHF [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Need advice: My friend keeps calling her son and my daughter boyfriend and girlfriend. Like ‘oh look, Liam your GF is here’ or ‘Anna, did you miss your BF last week when he was sick?’ The other day she said ‘Liam likes to take care of his GFs, right Anna?’ They’re 6. How do I address this? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:57 PM Flag
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Just tell her you don’t want to send your DC the message he needs a GF at this age [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:00 PM Flag
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Op- I have a daughter. She seems to be ok with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:01 PM Flag
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^ sorry, my friend is ok with this. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:03 PM Flag
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NP okay then reverse it. Tell her you don't like her giving your daughter the message that she needs a boyfriend in the first grade. It's inappropriate to be honest. Your friend sounds like a needy gold digger type who bases her value in life on her husband. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:03 PM Flag
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This is come up on here before. I could look her straight in the eye and say I think it's creepy to sexualize the friendship between children who are clearly too young to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Let's let them just enjoying each other's company. Don't you think? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:01 PM Flag
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*this has [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:01 PM Flag
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Op- I don’t think she would be friends with me if I said that. She thinks it’s cute. My husband doesn’t want to ruin the friendship because he’s friends with her DH. He doesn’t know what to say. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:04 PM Flag
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Well you're only way to make it stop is to tell her that you don't like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:24 PM Flag
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Then just say, Jane can we stop with the girlfriend boyfriend thing? Make sure you say it when all four parents are there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:25 PM Flag
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Op- thanks, I’ll say this and the nicest way possible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:27 PM Flag
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You could say something like (when not around the kids) "I agree that they are so cute together but I'm trying to keep the words "boyfriend/girlfriend" out of her vocabulary until she's a little older. They grow up so fast!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:35 PM Flag
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So what? Do what you have to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:36 PM Flag
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NP there is a happy middle ground where you can express your wants and needs without insulting the other person. Do you maintain a lot of friendships? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:27 PM Flag
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If they are 6, it doesn’t matter. If they were 16, different story. Just let it go. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:12 PM Flag
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Ok, so keep sexualizing children. That works. Makes sense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:15 PM Flag
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How is that sexualizing? They are 6! WTF are you already teaching your kid??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:19 PM Flag
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You ask her to stop and tell her why. Nicely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:21 PM Flag
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Op- ok, I’ll try to find the nicest words. Thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:23 PM Flag
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Just tell her . Nice or not nice geez [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:31 PM Flag
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Tbh as much as I'm pretty 2018, I don't see this as a big deal. I had a "boyfriend" when I was 5 and I'm sure my mom talked like that. But I was more a tomboy and it didn't make a lasting impression on my psyche. I think sometimes we get caught up in PC culture. If it genuinely bothers you, tell her--Jen, you're a great friend and I love that our children are friends too. I really am uncomfortable with your pushing an adult style relationship on them and all the implications it might have or whatever you feel is appropriate and why. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:53 PM Flag
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I saw this post before. Same person? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:00 PM Flag
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Meh, just ignore it. It’s annoying, but nbd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:01 PM Flag
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I would just say " Boyfriend and girlfriend? OMG I don't want to hear those terms until they are much older. You are freaking me out" in a fun lighthearted way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 10:48 PM Flag
[ - ] I’m not politically active, but would appreciate links on ways to protest the separation of children from parents at the border. Are there any aid groups there?TIA 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:56 PM Flag
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Only if you protest every other person who breaks the law and is separated from their children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:14 PM Flag
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This is a human rights issue. The parents are seeking asylum. This analogy is not appropriate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:37 PM Flag
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No they are not. The news is fucking with you. [ Reply | More ]
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Lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:12 PM Flag
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The news? Oh you mean the facts are getting in the way of your justification? Goid luck with continuing to try to lie to yourself and everyone else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:17 PM Flag
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It is completely appropriate. Break the law, pay the consequences. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:21 PM Flag
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generally speaking,if you break the law your KIDS dont' go to jail. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:25 PM Flag
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or just disappear [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 11:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Police Scanner Mom: WILD TURKEY ATTACK ON TWO HIKERS. This one should be good. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:52 PM Flag
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Awesome. Hope they got an eyeball. We need more people with patches. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:03 PM Flag
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op. It looks like they were walking the conservation trail and came across a flock (?) with some juveniles. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:28 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:37 PM Flag
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We had a lone wild turkey that used to live in the greenbelt behind our house. Those birds are mean. When our giant goofy lab used to go outside (no fence), the turkey would run into the yard from wherever he hung out during the day and charge the dog. The dog would retreat in fear (he's a wimp) and that bird would just walk right on the edge of our yard waiting for him to come off the porch. I know, csb, but it was fascinating to watch. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:50 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you think of “ladies who lunch”? I have a friend who does this and that’s all she talks about. “You have to go here”, “You have to try this”. I’m a SAHM too but I can’t imagine doing this all the time. And honestly, I’m tired of her bragging. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:50 PM Flag
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Recommending restaurants is bragging? Really? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:52 PM Flag
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Constantly, though? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:53 PM Flag
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So she is a foodie. And your insecurities are twisting her hobby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:55 PM Flag
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Op: what are you talking about? My insecurities? I’m insecure because I don’t want to constantly hear about her “lunches”? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:57 PM Flag
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Yes. It bothers you enough that you thought about it. Opened UB posted about it and are keeping this top of mind. You have some, shall we call them, issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:02 PM Flag
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You’re the mean poster who keeps posting today, aren’t you? Why are you on here? Why are you even responding? If you’re having such a bad day or life, go throw firecrackers at rats or something. Let it all out there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:07 PM Flag
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Fuck you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:58 PM Flag
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And you prove my point. Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:06 PM Flag
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You have no point, sweetie. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:08 PM Flag
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Is it a passive aggressive dig at you that she’s going out with other gals for lunch without you? If not, then enjoy her foodie talk. I love to hear about new restaurants and their signature dishes from friends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:09 PM Flag
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THIS. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:11 PM Flag
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Op: She does mention who she goes with, yes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:13 PM Flag
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I have an ex-DF who did this all the time, "I gotta go, I having luch with a few girlfriends ...", and this was when she knew I was sitting home all day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:13 PM Flag
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Why is she an ex? Did you tell her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:19 PM Flag
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she is an ex because she did a lot of this stuff, always liked to make it look like she had a ton of friends, was always late to our place when I could get her to come, ect [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:21 PM Flag
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Op: why do women do this? Act like they have a ton of friends? She’s always talking about where she’s going, who she’s with, what her plans are, but it’s all the time. Ie, “I’m going shopping with some girlfriends and I’ll give you recommendations after.” [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:25 PM Flag
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I find this behavior tiresome, it's like go be with all your other friends and leave me alone, and this is exactly what I did [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:27 PM Flag
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Op: I agree. Smart move. I see her all the time though. Did you just not return her calls? Said you’re busy when she wanted to hangout? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:30 PM Flag
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People who brag are just insecure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:49 PM Flag
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What do these women do? Seriously-np [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:13 PM Flag
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Married rich [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:32 PM Flag
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What do you mean? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:38 PM Flag
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I’m not really into restaurants. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:48 PM Flag
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Sign me up! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:34 PM Flag
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I wish I had friends to do this with tbh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:54 PM Flag
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*anyone want to get lunch sometime? (NYC) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone Cornell graduates? Is it depressing or nice for a kid from nyc 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:49 PM Flag
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Fake ivy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:52 PM Flag
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There’s no such thing as a fake ivy you dumbass [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:56 PM Flag
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See the agriculture school. And you are welcome [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:03 PM Flag
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What about the school of hotel management? People in Arts and Science look down on all the other divisions and say they are not Ivy League [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:30 PM Flag
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Engineering is awesome there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:41 PM Flag
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So what?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:51 PM Flag
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You're a MORON ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.18.18, 12:58 AM Flag
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NP. Oh get a grip. Who cares? I know plenty of people who went to Cornell and they didn’t care if it was a “fake Ivy”. They just liked the school and aren’t wrapped up in whether it’s fake or not. Dartmouth’s a fake Ivy too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:51 PM Flag
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Great college town but remote from anywhere else. Winters are tough. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:54 PM Flag
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Seems depressing. They have this hill they like but I'd hate living up there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:03 PM Flag
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super high suicide rate [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:24 PM Flag
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Wow. A lot of haters on today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:52 PM Flag
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Beautiful. My boyfriend went there. They seem to have a bit of an inferiority complex in regard to other Ivies. Also all grading is on a curve, which is harsh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:04 PM Flag
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it is beautiful, but winters can be long. lots of NYC kids do a semester junior year abroad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:11 PM Flag
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Campus is spectacular. Winters can be tough if that’s not your thing. Vast number of clubs and activities given the school is so large. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:17 PM Flag
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I wanted to go there and I didn't get in : ( [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:22 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:38 PM Flag
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My memories from visiting when my brother was looking at colleges were that the winters were awful and depressing and that a girl yelled at my family for daring to sit at her lunch table in the cafeteria where she usually sat when no one had been sitting there when we sat down...so didn't really like it much. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.18.18, 02:44 AM Flag
[ - ] We had a very large oak tree in the front yard that fell down (and totaled the car) six months ago. We got very lucky it didn't take out the front of the house with it's roots. We have been debating what to do with the front yard. Today my stupid husband and his NY parents went to the nursery and bought the most inappropriate tree for our front yard. When I explained why this is a bad idea, they all looked at me like I was ruining their fun. And no one asked me what I wanted put in MY front yard. AHHHHHHH!!!!!! 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:39 PM Flag
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wtf you got railroaded 3 on 1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:41 PM Flag
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OP: They do this shit all the goddamn time and I look like the bad guys because I have common sense. We live in California and of the four of us, I'm the native Californian and clearly explained to them why the tree they bought was a monumentally bad idea!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:43 PM Flag
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Yup. Well it's basically a democracy so you have to get your parents involved in more decisions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:47 PM Flag
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OP: My parents are dead unfortunately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:50 PM Flag
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Then you get three votes. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:59 PM Flag
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This honestly would not bother me. It's a tree. Chances are your DH won't even take care of it well enough to let it take. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:42 PM Flag
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OP: I'm honestly hoping this will happen. They are planting a redwood on a very small plot. So if it takes, we have the same tree problem only a bigger mess when it goes wrong. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:45 PM Flag
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It's really hard to get a tree going without a LOT of attention. My guess is that if your DH had the bad judgment (no offense) to get a tree that will create the same problem you had with the last one, he's not much of a "tree guy." He'll probably put it in and walk away. (Of course there are also ways you can quietly hasten the death process if you really want to sabotage this project.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:49 PM Flag
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I agree with you, and terribly wrong for asshole DH to make this decision without you. I would talk to him in private. If he does not back down, start hiding money [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:49 PM Flag
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Why don’t they value your thoughts and opinion? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:49 PM Flag
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They do. But 3 is more than 1. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:50 PM Flag
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OP: It's more a case they get ideas in their heads and them reconfirm to each other what a great plan it is. I'm not interested in my inlaws ideas about landscaping of my house. They have their own goddamn house to decorate. I usually nod my head and ignore but this is something I can't undo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:51 PM Flag
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Kill the tree. Poison that MFer and then have it removed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:04 PM Flag
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OP: Already threatened to do exactly that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:36 PM Flag
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OP: And had they brought home literally any other goddamn tree, I probably would have shrugged and said...okay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:52 PM Flag
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Ca mom also. Let DH know redwoods have very shallow roots and grow fast. Yank the damn thing yourself and go put in something your nurseryman recommends. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:12 PM Flag
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THIS. Ha ha they are nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:35 PM Flag
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when will his parents go home? just replace it when they are gone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:36 PM Flag
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OP: They go home Tuesday and that is what I'm planning to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:19 PM Flag
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OP: He keeps saying it isn't a "giant sequoia" and just a coastal... I tried to explain that we are talking 60 feet vs 100 feet. I'm avoiding him so I don't strangle him to death. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:35 PM Flag
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What type? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:54 PM Flag
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OP: Redwood. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:19 PM Flag
[ - ] If you were Megan’s stylist what would you have dressed her in? 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:27 PM Flag
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oooh that looks amazing. Flashy while subtle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:29 PM Flag
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No way. She needs sleeves and that skirt is overwhelming. I think she should stick to structured, streamlined clothing. She also needs to keep the skirt length right around knee length to hide her toothpick legs. They are not an asset. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:33 PM Flag
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No!! Do you see all of those pleats in the front. When the wind blows, they will be yelling HONEYMOON BABY [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 10:51 PM Flag
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t-a-porter.com/us/en/product/1063894/michael_kors_collection/ruffled-stretch-wool-crepe-dress [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:39 PM Flag
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These last two sucked. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:42 PM Flag
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LOL the Jason Wu was an accident. I though I was pasting the MK one. Which was my last choice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:43 PM Flag
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That is truly hideous. Absolutely looks like someone pulled granny's drapes down and wore them as a baggy dress. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:41 PM Flag
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I really like your taste in dresses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:39 PM Flag
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Thank you (I am sure someone will come along and disagree with both of us!) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:41 PM Flag
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Frump city! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:40 PM Flag
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That blue is amazingly vibrant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:39 PM Flag
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someone needs to wear it somewhere! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:41 PM Flag
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Too boring for that price though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:47 PM Flag
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Not the pink but the blue or the floral [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:43 PM Flag
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You don't wear a sleeveless dress to a church wedding. Nay. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:40 PM Flag
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The occasion called for a short dress. She looked so out of place, and the hat did look like wadded up toilet paper. And the dress was way too big. How did she dress so well before the wedding? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:41 PM Flag
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She was trying to look like a English rose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:42 PM Flag
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what occasion? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:36 PM Flag
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A wedding. All guests were in knee length outfits except her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:45 PM Flag
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Meghan's dress was designed for a very tall woman. Someone like Brooke Shields could have pulled that off at 6 feet tall, but not tiny Meghan. It was also 3 sizes too big and because it wrapped, she had to clutch at the skirt to keep it from blowing apart. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:48 PM Flag
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She is 5’7 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:56 PM Flag
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No way on earth is she 5'7". Standing next to Kate, who is 5'10", Meghan is more like 5'5". Actresses often lie about their height. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:02 PM Flag
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I thought she looked beautiful and kinda bohemian. But I agree about her toothpick legs. She needs to gain a bit of weight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:15 PM Flag
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Her legs are completely devoid of muscle. Even if she gained 50 pounds she would still have toothpick legs. They are awful! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:25 PM Flag
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Harsh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:55 PM Flag
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Why do you people care?! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:53 PM Flag
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I would have chosen something like this. Not a fan of the sleeves. I would have them stitched up. I would also have the dress hemmed so that it was the perfect length for her height. https://www.net-a-porter.com/us/en/product/1061555/oscar_de_la_renta/belted-wool-blend-dress [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:53 PM Flag
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^^Here's another option, but it would still need to be hemmed up to fit her properly. https://www.net-a-porter.com/us/en/product/1058773 I am small myself, so I choose dresses that have very little going on. The bows on the sleeves of this dress are kind of out there, but it looks stylish, tailored and not too messy. She needs to be careful not to wear dresses with flowing skirts and too much fabric. They overwhelm her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:00 PM Flag
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To a wedding? A hoochie wedding at the club, maybe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 09:05 PM Flag
[ - ] S/o: Angry RM - this might be hard for you to understand but Chinese born students flooding into certain US universities are essentially paying for poor American students. These students are full tuition and cash strapped universities are more than eager to take their money. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:21 PM Flag
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True. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:23 PM Flag
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Could you please take this to a politics or racial relations forum? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:26 PM Flag
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Would love to but there is one RM who create multiple threads on this and infesting UB with her mentle illness [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:29 PM Flag
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LOL this English is TERRIBLE. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:34 PM Flag
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ok grammar mom is back! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:37 PM Flag
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I'm trying to help you. Your English is really bad. Like embarrassingly poor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:41 PM Flag
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AND I’m trying to educate you. Your view of the world is dimmer than a fruitfly. Like embarrassingly stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:44 PM Flag
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All I wrote was "True" - I'm not OP but everyone knows that full tuition from any source underwrites FA for other students. Just like car insurance works by having the people who don't get into accidents help the company underwrite the payouts for those who do. It's just math. Nothing to with race or which countries they come from. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:33 PM Flag
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Please direct me to a "racial relations" forum because I'm dying to see what that would look like. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:34 PM Flag
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Google until you find it. Treat it as a project. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:36 PM Flag
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Oh, so you just pulled that out of your ass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:41 PM Flag
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K. Who cares? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:56 PM Flag
[ - ] I just got bumped a little further into the senior generation. My son got a greeting card sized envelope personally addressed. I thought it was a graduation card. It's an invitation to his friend's wedding next month. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:19 PM Flag
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Lucky it wasnt an electronic invite. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:23 PM Flag
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Wait until one of your kid's friends has a baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:25 PM Flag
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That already happened. His friend's girlfriend got pregnant in HS. He's a 22 year old with a 4 year old (she's super cute, though). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 07:25 PM Flag
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oh, well, as long as she's cute. That's all that matters. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:26 PM Flag
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My dc is getting married at the end of the month. I realized a lot of his age group (mid 20s) are doing so. NYC, MC kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.18, 08:55 PM Flag
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